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    Default Do you feel the most intense inital attraction to your conflictor?

    I wonder if the level of intensity of attraction you feel is related to how many differences you have. You are very attracted to people like yourself and people in your quadra--thats understandable. But if someone is so different from you, doesnt it make sense that you would find them to be most desirable (at least at first)?

    I had an experience with an istj where i felt enamored with him for a very, very long time. Ive also read a thread recently about problems between istp and enfj. is it this attraction factor that is very strong for your worst relation?
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    no, and if you think you do then you probably have your type wrong or his type wrong. Don't be retarded.

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    I've always been pretty attracted/unattracted to everybody.

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    depends on if she's typed wrong or not.
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    I don't think it makes much sense to have, as a rule, the most intense initial attraction to your conflictor.

    Maybe sometimes the conflictor will give the impression of something like "a dual that's also more exciting for being different/excessive etc", but I can't see how it would be a general trend.

    Personally, as a longer-term trend before I learned socionics, probably I used to be initially most attracted to EIEs.
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    I've only met one LSI that I could see myself being attracted to. He reminded me a great deal of my LII ex. Very quiet, philosphical, thinks a lot.. Luckily, he's with a super-cute EIE.. probably one of the most adorable couples I've ever run across. Other than that, though, not really. It's pretty easy for me to tell that I'd drive them crazy.
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    According to that socionics site, Germans are Ti egos. Not sure about 1/2 Germans... Te egos?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana View Post
    Nope. I'm not sure what type I've been initially most attracted to, if there's even a pattern. Curious fact though, I realized that anyone who I've actually gotten involved with, has been at least 1/2 German. Total coincidence I'm sure, but it's somewhat amusing. Maybe it's like that thing where people are attracted to others whose immune systems vary from their own, hah, subconsciously picking good gene combos.
    Supposedly there's something about scent/smell that has to do with good gene combination. I don't remember.

    I don't feel strongly attracted to a type, it's more hotness. I could see someone finding their conflictor appealing if they don't know much about what really works for them, or, they don't care. I "have been" attracted to IEIs, but in more superficial ways or liking certain qualities about them... but I don't think that it was any less superficial attraction than any other type.

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