Opinions on my type; you got 'em, I want 'em

[implied]

have you guys not met SLEs who absolutely do not take shit in a relationship of any sort? i dunno, i tend to think of SLEs as dudes who know their standing or whatever and would basically drop you if you became too much "trouble," not really like, "oh i'm going to pick a fight now because i get nervous when people don't fight."

i'm not sure on your type yet. i don't feel like ENFp is possible at all, yet i would not balk at ESTp or ESFp. trying to figure out where i stand regarding the last two, because they both seem plausible to me. i'm not sure to what degree your sort of cheery attitude isn't just a result of age etc. i suppose me feeling like ENFp is the LAST thing i would type you should be some sort of indicator as to your type.

[Mea]

i don't see anything wrong with SLE.

[JWC3]

have you guys not met SLEs who absolutely do not take shit in a relationship of any sort? i dunno, i tend to think of SLEs as dudes who know their standing or whatever and would basically drop you if you became too much "trouble," not really like, "oh i'm going to pick a fight now because i get nervous when people don't fight."

I realize that what i said about me, relationships, and fighting and how i said it makes it seem like i pick fights on purpose. I don't. I'm more explaining a pattern/coincidence I've noticed retroactively in my relationships. When things start to go too smoothly I tend to do something that 'wrecks the smoothness' of course this isn't intended. I just something I've noticed that I do. The most likely explanation I can come up with is that when things go smoothly I get worried about the other persons feelings (about me)and things that normally wouldn't be a big deal, combined with my new found sense of insecurity in the other persons true emotions makes me flip a bitch over the small things. I dunno if you've read the ESTp 'uncovered' profile on socionics.com but it's basically like that. Of course it's not to that extreme and it takes a lot more than just ignoring me in favor of work to cause me a flip a bitch. (However that does tickle the PoLR a bit, I just don't show it)

I also realize that it also makes it seem like the fights i do get involved in are petty. This also is untrue. Anything that I "Throw a fit over" I usually deem as very important at the time but again, hindsight is 20/20. An example;

Petty Fight I wouldn't get Involved in 'Just cause'
"OMG! ARE YOU SERIOUSLY WEARING THOSE SOCKS WITH THOSE SHOES?! WTF? I can't date you"

An actual fight that has happened in one of my previous relationships (That even in hindsight I still don't think was stupid of me to bring up);
"Stop with all the death threats! I don't care if your 'just fucking joking'! Look, when you threaten my life, or my well being in general it makes me think you don't care about those things and that you don't even love me at all. Knock it off."

Disclaimer: The only reason that I am admitting or explaining these things at all are for typing purposes. Please don't use the fact that I'm bringing up relationships at all as evidence for or against any particular typing.

However when it's all said and done, I would suggest that getting to know me (AIM, MSN, Stickam, in person, ect.) would be a much better way to figure out my type. As opposed to typing me off the things I say about myself.

P.S. Also please don't put things in quotes when referring to me that are things that I didn't actually say verbatim. It makes me think you are mocking me. Thanks.

[JWC3]

Boom goes the Dynomite.