Are you talking to me Waddlesworth?
Are you talking to me Waddlesworth?
No, I am talking to Maliafee.Originally Posted by polikujm
Can I talk to you?
Of course you may.
Thank you, MaliaFee, for your highly informative description of yourself and your activities. This will surely help me in my search for happiness in love. You give an impression of being genuine and having a fair amount of chastity, which I think is a sign of good mental health. You seem likely to find happiness.Well, if you read this thread, and others, you might realize that I am very rigid in my opinion of my type. But I am trying to relax to the ideas of others. So your opinion and others opinions on here are welcome, even if I seem resistant! I did post the video to find out what other people thought, after all...
Now. I should tell you I'm probably ESE (I am fully sure of this) so you might not be actually looking for someone like me.
BUT, let's say you ARE actually looking for someone like me, where do I go, what do I do? I'm happy to help you with this kind of thing.
I like and do a variety of things. You might find me at my college's campus during school days, because I'm going to school (finally, for real). I also go to different grocery stores to find the best, most delicious and quality foods to put in all manner of delicious recipes I enjoy preparing. You might also find me at the local garden nursery, picking out plants for a hanging basket or seeds for my vegetable garden. If I have some spare money (and I am pretty poor these days, so not often), I might be at the sewing store or the thrift store or at the movies or one of dozens of amazing restaurants I love, from diners to holes-in-the-wall to unique ethnic places. If my internet is down, I might be at the library, looking up books on farming/self-sufficient gardening, or cookbooks, or animal husbandry (taking care of animals, not marrying them), or reading about linguistics, or history, or birds and nature, or looking at catalogs of California native plants and restoration gardening manuals. I also might be at a friend's house, helping her put in a window box or plant her first garden or showing her how to trim her roses. You might get invited to one of my dinner parties: relaxed affairs (for the guests), always with plenty of food to send home with you. Lastly, I could be at a show watching live music, or playing live music in my own band. Most of the time I will go with a good friend or someone in my family, and if I'm not single, you'll see me there with my boyfriend. If no one is available, I'll go by myself (though dinner and movies and stuff like that are not as much fun by yourself I don't think). I am the girl who readily converses with you while waiting in the checkout line, as long as you don't look super scary. :tongue: You might also spot me with a friend, giggling and laughing hysterically at our own jokes. I love clothes so I will usually be dressed in what I consider something pretty and colorful and feminine and put-together. I don't wear that much jewelry. I never over-do my makeup, but I usually am wearing some when I go out, you know, to look somewhat polished. Eyes are important. In my hopes I am perceived as a smart and classy girl.
So that's the kind of girl I am in the world, if you really want to look for my type of person, that's what you should look for, I suppose.
And it's okay to be forward, I found it flattering.No harm in being honest.
PS
My experiences have taught me that it is smarter to admit doubt than to hide it from ourselves.
[instead of questioning your sociotype, question socionics, is what I mean.]
Last edited by Waddlesworth; 06-16-2009 at 05:52 AM.
My experience with ESFjs so far has been quite extreme - I either like them alot, or dislike them quite fervently. You happened to give me positive vibes. =) Even though I don't know you apart from reading your posts, you seem rather nice, genuine, tactful and optimistic. I have met some unpleasant ESFjs who tend not to be upfront about their true sentiments, too emotional, too obsessed with material wealth and goods, like to put up a front so as to look good infront of people. =P You are quite a cool person so far. =)
This is an excellent question and for it I will kindly provide a simple answer:
Chastity involves the direction of the sexual impulse away from casual fornication and masturbation. It is the redirection of the sexual impulse into a creative force.
I am of the opinion that a lack of chastity has a degenerative effect upon the human psyche. My tangible experiences in this world seem to confirm this.
Socionics promises alot and has sound transcendental logic behind it. The only problem is that the framework is not proven to correspond with the reality.
You make it very clear that my claims are unfounded and I really have no response other than to admit that I misinterpreted you; that I was wrong.
But to answer your question:
I, mostly for the sake of conversation, made the assumption that your behavior is symptomatic of someone that transmutes their sex impulse into chastity. It is silly because there is no basis for this.
It could be that you do indeed transmute your sexuality more than some but just are not aware. But I don't assume that and I have no reason to. Just a hunch.
Basically, this thread just pumped out the biggest helping of win these eyes o' mine hath ever done feasteth upon and suchthelike.
ALL HAIL MALIA, AWESOME GODDESS OF BEING COOLER THAN ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE!
lol I totally feel exactly the same way. In every sentence. Damn. lol
Wond'ring aloud, How we feel today. Last night sipped the sunset, My hand in her hair. We are our own saviours, As we start both our hearts, Beating life Into each other. ~Ian Anderson
This is possible.
Without hijacking this thread I want to make this clear:
Chastity(as I meant it) does not imply prudeness. It is healthy, controlled sexuality.
There are some people that fall back exclusively upon sex, or become addicted to the orgasm. Some people also become experimental with sex and begin to engage in behaviors which I think are obviously degenerative and cause their lives to 'fall apart', but they don't know why their lives are 'falling apart' because society conditions them to believe it is 'perfectly natural' to act how they act.
Like, for example, sometimes you can just tell, just FEEL that a woman engaging in anal sex. This causes them to behave in a way which seems to imply, using my imagination, that their boyfriend/husband/guys they meet at the clubs, make them do this. you can just TELL.
Also sometimes it seems like you can tell if a person "jerks off alot". There are some people, based on their mannerisms, which make it obvious that they are compulsive masturbators.
A person's flesh-tones, eyes, fatty deposits, can also imply pathological sexual behavior, or their attitudes towards others and their conclusions and life-values.
It goes like this: one thing leads to another.
Sometimes only one bridge leads to the other side. So you know that if they are on the other side they did a very specific thing. In theory.
The human body is a machine with a very complex endocrine system. The vital hormonal fluids in this endocrine system can be offset by very specific activities. From behavior in highly charged circumstances(such as sex) men can be transformed, physiologically, into women, women to men.
Consequently, it is very important that the sexuality is not misused. Prolonged sexual disturbances are disasterous.
The feeling function is very important in this regard because it dictates freewill(every choice we make on our own). It decides whether a particular sexual behavior is agreeable or not.
When the feeling function fails to carry out its preservation instinct--to resist entropy--it becomes degenerative(thanatos). As a consequence the organism falls into sexual perversion.
You seem similar to the real life ESEs I know.
I wish I could handle the constant Fe blast and date an ESE. You're all so positive and good at enjoying life.
ILE-Ti
6w7 sx/sp (low level of confidence)
lol. My relationship with Fe is love/hate. I never really know how to respond to it, and I can't match the intensity with Fe doms for long. I enjoy it as an observer but not when I'm in the middle of the tractor beam.
ILE-Ti
6w7 sx/sp (low level of confidence)
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