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    Yes. Here's to happily-ever-after....

    Shall we reside in your part of the world, or mine? [I'll rock-paper-scissor you for it!]
    Yes, I suspected this might happen if I ever said hello to a girl. Because I saw this cartoon once, where the boy and girl first said hello to eachother, then they hugged, and then they were married.

    I think I need to ask bluehenrybob for advice what to do next, because he's the man.

    *rock*
    ...the human race will disappear. Other races will appear and disappear in turn. The sky will become icy and void, pierced by the feeble light of half-dead stars. Which will also disappear. Everything will disappear. And what human beings do is just as free of sense as the free motion of elementary particles. Good, evil, morality, feelings? Pure 'Victorian fictions'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Warlord View Post
    Yes, I suspected this might happen if I ever said hello to a girl. Because I saw this cartoon once, where the boy and girl first said hello to eachother, then they hugged, and then they were married.
    Yes - by this custom, I have been married many times. Even so, I'm looking forward to a prosperous and fun marriage w you

    I think I need to ask bluehenrybob for advice what to do next, because he's the man.

    *rock*
    I was going to say *paper* and win quietly, but because you implied that bluehenrybob is more "the man" than I am [despite my physical gender], I'm gonna have to pull out the big guns: *DYNAMITE*

    I win. See you in Atlanta.

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofsappho View Post
    I'll rock-paper-scissor you for it!]
    Didn't you rock-paper-scissor me to sit in front of hkkmr's car? lol.... now its for marriage...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    Didn't you rock-paper-scissor me to sit in front of hkkmr's car? lol.... now its for marriage...
    Rock-paper-scissoring is a big deal, Numbers! You should know that

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofsappho View Post
    Rock-paper-scissoring is a big deal, Numbers! You should know that
    I came to America because my mother really did just flip a coin to decide her faith and her three children.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    I came to America because my mother really did just flip a coin to decide her faith and her three children.
    Really?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofsappho View Post
    Really?!
    If it landed tail, I wouldn't be talking to you, maybe I don't even speak english.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    If it landed tail, I wouldn't be talking to you, maybe I don't even speak english.
    That's amazing. I bet there's a crazy story behind that - you should write it!


    Quote Originally Posted by aixelsyd View Post
    I've actually heard of people who do that to cast lots and inquire of God's direction in their lives. So I could believe it.
    Good point. I guess in some cases, you'd never know whether either choice was the better one; may as well leave it to chance. Still... it always amazes me how one [seemingly] tiny thing can change everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by songofsappho View Post
    That's amazing. I bet there's a crazy story behind that - you should write it!
    Yes, we were dirt poor, my father was abusive, my mother muster up the courage the bring three of us here. I remember vividly all the nights we all endured, and we are so helpless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ephemeros View Post
    Cool. Well I have a hard time to choose, but I'm a bit afraid of throwing the coin, because I think "what would happen if it fell on the other side?". So I always end up in analyzing the other possibility and all depends on how attractive the "forbidden" option is.
    Yea, I think people who usually just flip a coin or make decision like that are often the one that thinks too much, that they don't want to think anymore, which cause indecisiveness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    I know an ESFp guy who is in hospital right now because a guy broke into his house and beat him with a baseball bat. Broke a lot of bones. It was a friend of an ex he fucked over apparently lol.

    I would like to have sex with an INTp. Especially if she wore an elf costume.
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger View Post
    I would like to have sex with an INTp. Especially if she wore an elf costume.
    ROTFL. These two sentences toghether are priceless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger View Post
    Especially if she wore an elf costume.
    I don't like costumes on people. They look better on say video game characters because the lighting/shading is right.

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    lol you people are so weird.
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    I always thought princess peach would give great head

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    Quote Originally Posted by crazedratXII View Post
    I always thought princess peach would give great head
    Wow, that was probably the funniest thing I have read in awhile.
    LIE-Ni, i think, but maybe ILI

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    Way better than I have expected!

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    Default hey, I am really really curious, guys.

    FEMALE ILIs...(and males, if you're so inclined)

    -I'm a guy,

    I'll just tell you guys how I would be in bed, and you tell me if that would work out...


    since I have not met/interacted with let alone had sexual relations with an ILI yet! (I'm very curious about y'all)




    I love to take control. I love to seize the moment. I love to please my partner before all: I will make sure that my partner "cums" at least 3 to 5 times before I even take out my captain.

    I love to make my partner react. I love to feel the body sensations move and pulsate throughout the nerves and veins.
    I love to make the girl moan, toes curl, and fingers spread.

    I love to make her hips and back tense up. I love intensely aggressive sex.
    but I also like smooth, calm sweet tender lovin'.
    I'm earthy and sensual, just like the ESFP profile says.
    I care about my partner's needs before my own.

    I love to take control.

    SO...would that work out? and how?

    or should I just continue banging semi-duals... (IEI)





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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger View Post
    I know an ESFp guy who is in hospital right now because a guy broke into his house and beat him with a baseball bat. Broke a lot of bones. It was a friend of an ex he fucked over apparently lol.

    I would like to have sex with an INTp. Especially if she wore an elf costume.
    LOL no true INTp would ever wear a costume to have sex, for I would then personally have to
    shoot them in the head!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    lol you people are so weird.

    and thus...I wish that these type convos could exist in the real world, aside from forums.

    but people in the real world, when you show this stuff to them, they just react negatively and say "humans can't be boxed in" "ohhh we're special and unique"


    oh but god, are they wrong.

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    They are private, quiet, fast and conservative in bed
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    I remember an ENFp I used to know who was telling me her INTp ex asked her to tie him up and dominate him.

    Being naturally curious she gave it a go, I suppose....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    I remember an ENFp I used to know who was telling me her INTp ex asked her to tie him up and dominate him.

    Being naturally curious she gave it a go, I suppose....
    Sorry, that sounds like another kind...maybe Ne dominent. Actually she may have been ESTj
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    Sorry, that sounds like another kind...maybe Ne dominent. Actually she may have been ESTj
    It's unlikely. I became aquainted with her through socionics (she never posted on this site), lived fairly close to me and had self typed as IEE. I saw nothing to doubt the IEE typing myself.

    Anyway, it is good to know that you type someone as likely ESTj simply on the basis that she agreed to entertain a boyfriends sexual fantasy - which is all you know about the person.

    (And this is why I just asked you on another thread if you are being serious...)

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    hahaha.. oh christ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    It's unlikely. I became aquainted with her through socionics (she never posted on this site), lived fairly close to me and had self typed as IEE. I saw nothing to doubt the IEE typing myself.

    Anyway, it is good to know that you type someone as likely ESTj simply on the basis that she agreed to entertain a boyfriends sexual fantasy - which is all you know about the person.

    (And this is why I just asked you on another thread if you are being serious...)
    ESTj's are very ingaging in sexual contact and will try any thing their mate tells them to try...What's wrong with that?

    In fact, if I had one at the moment, I wouldn't mind trying a few things.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    ESTj's are very ingaging in sexual contact and will try any thing their mate tells them to try...What's wrong with that?
    let's ask the question differently, what did cyclops say that contradicted the IEE typing?

    To be honest, I think most people would tie their partner if they asked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    let's ask the question differently, what did cyclops say that contradicted the IEE typing?

    To be honest, I think most people would tie their partner if they asked.
    I am questioning the sexual preference of the INTp...they are very conservative in the bedroom and wouldn't asked to be tied up. And, it's not an IEE because IEE sexual preference is more like mine, kinky, flirty, fun, but not really suggestive or forward. We don't like domination style sex, were too fragile for it. Domination sex would likely go with S types. NF's type blood pressure and anxiety climbs too high with extrenuous physical stress; that wouldn't be great for us in bed, unless it was done very gently.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    I am questioning the sexual preference of the INTp...they are very conservative in the bedroom and wouldn't asked to be tied up. And, it's not an IEE because IEE sexual preference is more like mine, kinky, flirty, fun, but not really suggestive or forward. We don't like domination style sex, were too fragile for it. Domination sex would likely go with S types. NF's type blood pressure and anxiety climbs too high with extrenuous physical stress; that wouldn't be great for us in bed, unless it was done very gently.
    ok first, if the INTPs wouldn't ask to be dominated...then that's boring, and I'm finding my sexual fulfillment ELSEwhere.

    and you're wrong with the NF generalization.

    You're forgetting ALL about INFPs - who are REALLY kinky in bed. EXTREMELY. and very passionate, might I add.


    and another thing..gentle's cool, but come on doesn't it get boring after a while? I mean, I agree that it's awesome...sometimes.

    but...don't you just wanna...let out all of your pent up sexual rage on another person's body whilst aiming to turn them into pudding in your arms with pure ecstacy ever?

    hehe, maybe it's just me... hehe...

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluehenrybob View Post
    ok first, if the INTPs wouldn't ask to be dominated...then that's boring, and I'm finding my sexual fulfillment ELSEwhere.

    and you're wrong with the NF generalization.

    You're forgetting ALL about INFPs - who are REALLY kinky in bed. EXTREMELY. and very passionate, might I add.


    and another thing..gentle's cool, but come on doesn't it get boring after a while? I mean, I agree that it's awesome...sometimes.

    but...don't you just wanna...let out all of your pent up sexual rage on another person's body whilst aiming to turn them into pudding in your arms with pure ecstacy ever?

    hehe, maybe it's just me... hehe...
    I am sorry, but I don't account for mistakes in VI's, which is what I have been trying to fix here...otherwise, yeah INTp's not fun in bed, sorry. Look at another type for yourself if you're into that kinda stuff. No INTP will ever give a BJ or go down.

    Creative is cool not domineering. Yes, I want to really get down and dirty...but not get hurt in the process of doing it. SLI and EII, like myself, have a very good sexual relationship; but so far, ESTj's and I havn't had anything long term to relate to the creative and changing and fun part of that experiance.

    LSE/EStj's want to see instantly that there's a match in that area with me, I like exploring, one new thing at a time, that's the key to a better long term sexual relationship...not, having it all out on the table at once.

    IEE might enjoy dirty sex that's why ESTj and them hook up more often then with me...because I don't do dirty, sorry!
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    well I hope to fuck one o' y'all "ILIs" one o' these days!





    also, Maritsa, you are have kind of a sweet charm, like you say things that are absolutely off-the-charts inaccurate, but then it makes sense.
    like..you're just trying to learn.

    and I think that's kind of beautiful.

    keep at it, Maritsa. You'll get there soon enough!

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluehenrybob View Post
    well I hope to fuck one o' y'all "ILIs" one o' these days!





    also, Maritsa, you are have kind of a sweet charm, like you say things that are absolutely off-the-charts inaccurate, but then it makes sense.
    like..you're just trying to learn.

    and I think that's kind of beautiful.

    keep at it, Maritsa. You'll get there soon enough!

    Thanks, but I already know everything about VI, but I'm still learning about people.
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    what am I like in bed?

    This is for educational purposes.

    Okay.

    I have to say that getting to bed requires certain criteria to be met.Trust & attraction, etc. I don't always enjoy interacting with people, unless I'm in my ephemeral -induced isn't-everyone-a-beautiful-creature mode, so the idea of having sex with someone I don't like and only has sex appeal doesn't really do enough for me. I want to have a personal response to how great the soul of the other person is.

    Once in bed, I echo the other poster who sd they like to try out new things.I like using my to pick up on what seems to work best physically.I've gotten great feedback on the use of it---like the dumbstruck, amazed kind, which is incredibly gratifying.

    Bed is one of my favorite places to express my for the other person. It's like I get to act to express my adoration of him. The invulnerable strength of is what, I imagine, most lovers of intps see day-to-day. I think how I value the other person can be communicated in the bedroom.

    The dynamics I naturally want actually make me more accepting of dual theory because I want the sureness and athleticism (I'm a little hesitant to use the word "dominance," as I think sex should be consensual and the word dominance has a denotation that seems to blur consent) of an ESXP, and I like sensitive men.

    I really like exploring the world of in the bedroom, just really immersing myself in the experience and for once really being there in the present.

    With the right person, my awkwardness and restraint (with other men) really disappear.

    ESFP guy was the best kisser for me of all of the guys I've been with. With non-ESFP prospective partners or boyfriends, I was very aware of the psychological differences and gaps in mental intimacy between us during even the simplest physical intimacy. With the ESFP, he reached out for my face when I went to kiss him...the immediate assurance of the type romantic style that more hesitant types are supposed to find a complement.

    An INTj in a previous reply has said his ESFP relative sd her INTp left afterward. I too have an element of the mission accomplished attitude at times.I describe it as wham-bam-thank-you-man. But I also sometimes have the desire for rounds 2-4 after round one. Just cuddling afterwards? I'd have to have some sort of goal described to me, like:"Nanashi, we just did it, and now I want to curl up with you and enjoy this closeness for 5 min because it will make me feel like our relationship is a close one." Something like that. Or the guy could act that sentiment out, act like it meant something to him to cuddle. I could value that reason to stay in bed.even if it wasn't spoken. I am very enterprising and lone rangerish, otherwise. Sometimes, maybe the intp is thinking of everything else they have to finish that day. Maybe there's no mental stimulation for them at that time near the person they just enjoyed sex with, and the sex is over, and the intp's brain craves some substance. Been there. I'm not saying that the partner is not intelligent, but perhaps they're not putting out mentally right then.

    I was married before to a guy I wasn't happy with. He was being a bigot, and my wasn't thrilled about it. I can't conceive of love without respect being involved.Because I was one of the foci of his denigration, I did not think I was loved. I withdrew from him, except for physically.During a few subsequent encounters, he frustratedly/angrily sd:"You're not here!" I reassured him that I was and tried to act like it. It was a surprise to me that my inner recoiling was tangible. I'd like to propound that this guy began degrading women in front of me.I happen to be one. He also mocked obese people, believed in male supremacy (irrationally and without evidence, which frustrated me), and engaged in stereotyping. If you want your relationship with an INTJ to be intimate, don't lack respect for the person (or for all people besides men, in this guy's case). I craved sex. I still wanted to go to bed, but I wasn't stupid enough to put myself out there emotionally during the physical contact. Remember all the depictions of men not communicating to women? The gender connection is such a stereotype.
    Actual excerpt from my life:
    bigot ESTX :frown::"Why don't you ever tell me about your day?"
    now reclusive INTP :"Why would I tell you about my day?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    I am sorry, but I don't account for mistakes in VI's, which is what I have been trying to fix here...otherwise, yeah INTp's not fun in bed, sorry. Look at another type for yourself if you're into that kinda stuff. No INTP will ever give a BJ or go down.
    Oh, Maritsa, I guess I'm glad they didn't ban you, but that's SO wrong. I think you put a little too much importance on socionics type in determining behavior. There are many factors influencing behavior besides type.

    Thanks, but I already know everything about VI, but I'm still learning about people.
    ...*heavy sigh*. I'm glad you're here Maritsa.

    nanashi, thanks for posting. the info is appreciated. Sorry you were married to a loser. I hope things are going better now!
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

    Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music...

    I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silverchris9 View Post
    Oh, Maritsa, I guess I'm glad they didn't ban you, but that's SO wrong. I think you put a little too much importance on socionics type in determining behavior. There are many factors influencing behavior besides type.



    ...*heavy sigh*. I'm glad you're here Maritsa.

    nanashi, thanks for posting. the info is appreciated. Sorry you were married to a loser.
    You're IEI; my post was on ILI
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 2w1sw(1w9) helps others to live up to their own standards of what a good person is and is very behind the scenes in the process.
    Tritype 1-2-6 stacking sp/sx


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa33 View Post
    You're IEI; my post was on ILI
    I know. I also know that what you said about ILIs was not correct.
    Not a rule, just a trend.

    IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.

    Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music...

    I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.

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