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    Specifically, I'm thinking of the benefit pairs.

    Do you know any such couples?

    If not, talk to me about the theory going on behind them.

    What made me think: Delta Infantiles apparently fall into a pattern of giving way too much, to the detriment of their own health. I was wondering how this interacts with the Care-dar in Alphas. The questions above are still valid, however.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gulanzon View Post
    Specifically, I'm thinking of the benefit pairs.

    Do you know any such couples?

    If not, talk to me about the theory going on behind them.

    What made me think: Delta Infantiles apparently fall into a pattern of giving way too much, to the detriment of their own health. I was wondering how this interacts with the Care-dar in Alphas. The questions above are still valid, however.
    so im an esfj im the caregiver and would and enfp be the infantile?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pumpkin View Post
    so im an esfj im the caregiver and would and enfp be the infantile?
    Correct!

    And SEI-EII as well.

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    Out of all the egos, FeSi is the least likely for me to feel attracted to. There is something about being "out-affectioned" that bothers me, I think, and I get doted on way too much for my comfort level. They also require a certain level of control and almost obedience from me... I don't know any couple that are, though, that are of your specifics.

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    Quote Originally Posted by look.to.the.sky View Post
    Out of all the egos, FeSi is the least likely for me to feel attracted to. There is something about being "out-affectioned" that bothers me, I think, and I get doted on way too much for my comfort level. They also require a certain level of control and almost obedience from me... I don't know any couple that are, though, that are of your specifics.
    I completely agree. Couldn't put it better myself. It's like I appreciate the effort, but don't "need" it and it makes me feel obligated and uncomfortable, sort of boxed in I guess. I'd prefer someone be a bit grumpy or at least give me something to contribute. If they are sunshine-y like me too it's like a whole bunch of carebears dancing around...which is just not attractive at all.
    Hi! I'm an ENFP. :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by look.to.the.sky View Post
    I don't know any couple that are, though, that are of your specifics.
    Nah, that's fine. Own experiences/comments/whatevers are totally valid too. Thanks!

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    I have an EII friend - we get along quite well, but I wouldn't date him......I mean he's a nice guy, but he's just not my type, no pun intended

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    The 2 SEI males I know like to display their protecting side. One would gently look after me while in town (I tend to cross the street at the wrong time), and the other would stand next to me to discourage any agressor (he's a policeman :tongue: ). They follow the traditional lines naturally, but it's more about being gallant than being macho. Well... They sometimes play macho, just to get a silly joke about it, something I'm too happy to give them.
    It's very comforting having a strong but peaceful man near by. In exchange, I share my observations with them. The more random, the happier the SEI. But after a while, it's tiring.

    As long as things are fun and light, everything's perfect. Things got rough when I tried to establish a clear state of relationship. They freaked out. Even my SEI female friend, when I tried to "feel" how deep was our link. I could almost hear her U-turn her psychological car.

    edit : I remember... I've a IEE male friend, and yes, he is very flirtarious (not sure of the word). Many girls at our university have thought he was into them, but no, it's just his natural state. Once, after years of friendship, he told me he was glad that everything were always clear between us. Don't know why, but I was very flattered.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Linalee View Post
    As long as things are fun and light, everything's perfect. Things got rough when I tried to establish a clear state of relationship. They freaked out. Even my SEI female friend, when I tried to "feel" how deep was our link. I could almost hear her U-turn her psychological car.
    haha YES, it's true! Fun and light.
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    Me as Childlike Delta , i've been closed with Caring Alpha
    Yeah , i'm EII and he is SEI

    Yeah , i'm more serious and dutiful than him and sometimes , he can teases me. But yeah , not mean ways .-.
    He ever said " When i closer to you , you're more serious than me. "

    But , he's nice and supportive person. He likes to ask to me , like asking homework , asking myself , and sometimes , he teases me.
    When , he's into other women besides me , he is calmer and less speaks than me. He never teases me , except me.
    We tend to share and discuss together like share homework , interest , me and himself.

    Yeah , i never think can make SEI males really opens up to me , and he is to me.

    I dunno , he has crush to me or not :'

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