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Sauron, The Great Enemy
My mom (Fe ESE) does that to me all the time.
Basically its like, "Okay, but you need to deliver your message non-aggressively, so people are more willing to be on your side" its like,
The Alpha NT often just wants to be critical and direct with people. Like if I'm in an argument I tend not to soften my words (I have learned to although, so I'm better now). We can get pretty vicious and devastating, but then people are like "fuck you" and ignore us. The Alpha SF reminds us that if we don't deliver our arguments properly then people will not take what we say in.
We can't be like an enemy at the gates, which is our natural disposition. We have to be like a teacher who is helpful and nurturing intellectually.
So the Alpha SF listens to the analysis's we make or our theories/explanations and then relays them back to us, and helps fill in the holes where we are not elaborating enough or where we are not "connecting".
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Sometimes after a family argument my ESE mom will start making jokes about the monkeys on the discovery channel.
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