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    Quote Originally Posted by octopuslove View Post
    When SLEs enter relationships, do they tend to be "all or nothing"? So they either date someone for two days and realise it's not working and leave it, or they end up dating someone for 10 years? I know an SLE like this and was wondering if that's typical SLE behaviour.
    I do that too, I am not an SLE but I project largely if the relationship will work or not. Why brother even pushing the relationship when It has large percentage of chance it will not work, and that both partners will feel straining in the relationship. I take this attitude in a lot of things I do tho, Where as I do realized that letting things progress naturally does have a strong point, where things can happen even if you do not expect it, But that isn't me by nature.
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    I think it depends what they're looking for. I had one ESTp who put some effort into dating me, but not all that much, and he seemed to want to keep "hanging out" here and there, which annoyed me so I broke it off. And a few times he said he didn't see the problem, so I said I didn't think he liked me enough to make it work. So I think they can be kind of wishy washy. He was at a point of wanting to date around and not be too serious.

    I know another ESTp who is an amazing guy and so devoted to his girlfriend and I'm sure they will be together 4-eva

    I don't think they'd be they type to drop it after 2 days because maybe it wouldn't work...I think they'd give it more of a shot and see. I mean, they're impulsive, but usually in both directions...so things even out. For instance, they might say they "haaaate!" someone...and then in a day or two that person did something nice and now they "Looooove!" this person, etc. I mean, EPs in general do that to some extent...
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