How many of you IEIs have sexual violent fantasies?
How many of you IEIs have sexual violent fantasies?
I used to, but after experiencing a sexual encounter in real life that actually was violent, my mind rarely goes there.
I try to have sex with my body. Not my brain. Intelligence is good for some things. When you dance, make love - and a bunch of other things, you need to be in your body though.
i have them
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
What's with the OP assumption that only IEIs are into the rough stuff?!?!
allez cuisine!
lol @ attacking my genetic code. Do IEIs see everything as some sort of weakness or defense mechanism? I don't need defense mechanisms here, and that isn't what this is.
I do think IEIs have a higher disposition toward thoughts of this sort, as we can see with bulletsanddoves. As for my brother, I am not certain .. another reason I asked the question.
Basically he was planning to blow up me and my mother with a bomb, and I am wondering if his sick violent fantasy world is tied in with his sexual fantasy world (which he must have because he has never really had a friend).. Mostly because when those two worlds are tied together it makes for a compulsive violent urge, and not a violent urge isolated to a situation. My instinct is telling me yes, the worlds are tied together. We will see how it unfolds
Last edited by crazedrat; 05-05-2009 at 10:11 PM.
Your irrational hostility to IEIs needs to be checked. Go see a shrink, soak in a hot tub, take a nice long walk - do what you have to honey, but IEIs aren't your enemy. And we're not the thing wrong in whatever is wrong with your life.
Exactly Akra. Most disorders are genetic in nature, so they are hard to overcome cause you really have to kinda go against the natural grain of who you are. But with help and assistance it can be done. =)
(Needs to make another appointment with HIS therapist lol)
Also whenever you have a mental illness like I do, it's important to understand that it can't possibly the effect total sum of the person or the good qualities that you DO have. Like my grandma says "Everybody has something." Everybody has something wrong with them, human life is frail and not perfect - so one shouldn't beat themselves up just because one is more prone to certain ailments.
I may be more susceptible to mental illnesses but I also have a great immune system (and good posture, and intelligence, and inward motor skills), for example- and I rarely get physically sick.
It sounds like you are throwing the baby out with the bathwater with your brother, crazedrat. Your brother still needs love and compassion even if he is mentally ill. Nobody is a totally bad person.
LOL
TBH, B&D is one of many IEIs.I do think IEIs have a higher disposition toward thoughts of this sort, as we can see with bulletsanddoves.
Nonetheless, I'm sure there are a lot of IEIs here into kinky shit.
FUCKING LOLBasically he was planning to blow up me and my mother with a bomb, and I am wondering if his sick violent fantasy world is tied in with his sexual fantasy world (which he must have because he has never really had a friend)..
Have you ever tried to work out why he wants to blow you up?
He wanted to blow me up because he thought I was sneaking in his room and reading his physics / aliens on moon / adolt ****** journals. That's a long story. He'd been building the bomb for about a month or two, and he kept asking if anyone had gone in his room. Then one day he was out looking at the moon to see if he could see alien spacecraft flying toward it because he is writing a book about aliens on the dark side of the moon when he saw 'shadows' in his room. Since he was 100% certain these shadows were either me or my mom he decided to blow us up. After this he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, so I'm pretty sure that explains things.
Despite his diagnosis of schizophrenia, I still think alot of the particular directions his behaviors take are related to being IEI. This is because most IEIs are sexually and mentally jaded. I don't think any of you have said 'no' yet.. just avoided the question altogether, and B&D has said 'yes' he has a fair amount of violent sexual fantasy.
Last edited by crazedrat; 05-06-2009 at 06:15 PM.
Thanks for sticking up for me. It was only *one* time, and I didn't enjoy it. I got fucked hard in the face before. That's it.BnD might have had one instance of violent sexual fantasy and his statement would still be true, yet due to your bias you twisted it into a "fair" amount.
You only know if you like something if you TRY it though, in my philosophy. Not always but a lot of life is like that. Otherwise it feels like everything is just 'in my head' and I get annoyed. It's like 'I have to test this in reality or I'll go insane.'
I do like talking roughly during sex and being verbally dominant. But actual violence just doesn't turn me on. =)