ILEs: How do you see ESEs? (ENTp-ESFj activity relations)

[Banana Pancakes]

I've been running into a lot of ESEs lately for some reason, and their Fe is just so INTENSE, especially if they like you. I can't really seem to focus when they're talking to me; it's like looking into the face of the sun. I'm always trying to match their friendliness and enthusiasm, and find myself waiting for them to walk away for a minute so I can catch my breath and regain consciousness of my surroundings.

Even in written communication they OH MY GOSH GET SO EXCITED AND USE SO MANY EXCLAMATION MARKS!!!!

How do the rest of you ILEs see ESEs and their constant blast?

[Creepy-male]

LOL!!

Are all the ESEs you know like this? I understand that we hyperactive ESEs are thankfully not the only kind

[Logos]

I've been running into a lot of ESEs lately for some reason, and their Fe is just so INTENSE, especially if they like you. I can't really seem to focus when they're talking to me; it's like looking into the face of the sun. I'm always trying to match their friendliness and enthusiasm, and find myself waiting for them to walk away for a minute so I can catch my breath and regain consciousness of my surroundings.

Even in written communication they OH MY GOSH GET SO EXCITED AND USE SO MANY EXCLAMATION MARKS!!!!

How do the rest of you ILEs see ESEs and their constant blast?

There's your problem. Don't try. Just conserve your energy.

[Banana Pancakes]

LOL!!

Are all the ESEs you know like this? I understand that we hyperactive ESEs are thankfully not the only kind

Well my friend is married to one and she's a lot better, very chill and capable of sitting on a couch for extended periods between the bursts of constant motion.

The ones I meet seem to hone in on my sarcastic comments and go crazy though.

[EllaC]

I love ESEs (generally)!

It's like the side of me that isn't books, psychoanalysis... that small part of me that is fun, likes playing tricks and daring to do anything... I have a friend, an ESE, and we can do all this!

In less fun times: I see them as quite different to me (very different, even). We notice it. They seem to think I'm pretty amazing and mysterious. I like it. They seem to be misfits to a point too. I like this.

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

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[1981slater]

ESEs forever

[Creepy-male]

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

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[redbaron]

I love ESEs. My husband isn't too over the top, normally. Which is good! But yeah, there are times that our Fe bounces all over the place and it's really fun. There are other times that it gets to be too much and I need to be totally chill to balance the emotions. I'm getting good at that though.

eta: oops! I know I'm not ILE... sorry!!! I dunno why I ignored that minor detail...

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

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[Banana Pancakes]

eta: oops! I know I'm not ILE... sorry!!! I dunno why I ignored that minor detail...

don't worry, you're the third person to do so.

[cracka]

I'm starting to believe that I'm nothing like the ESE's that most of you people know...lol.

Well, other than Redbaron... She's practically married to an older, better looking version of me...lol. :wink:

[redbaron]

I'm starting to believe that I'm nothing like the ESE's that most of you people know...lol.

Well, other than Redbaron... She's practically married to an older, better looking version of me...lol. :wink:

lol I'm guessing that a) female ESEs are more effervescent than ESE males in general and b) the younger ones are even more emotionally energetic than the older ones.

[Logos]

I'm starting to believe that I'm nothing like the ESE's that most of you people know...lol.

Well, other than Redbaron... She's practically married to an older, better looking version of me...lol. :wink:

Considering that in the popular sentiments of this forum, ESE has practically become synonymous with "my overbearing annoying mother who doesn't understand me," then it should be easy to understand why that would be the case.

[redbaron]

Considering that in the popular sentiments of this forum, ESE has practically become synonymous with "my overbearing annoying mother who doesn't understand me," then it should be easy to understand why that would be the case.