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    Default If you can choose what type you future Son/daughter

    what type would you want them to be?
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    Someone from my quadra or semi-dual. Not because he would be better or worse but I imagine I would find it easier to connect and understand them better (and vice versa).
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    I want my son to be my identical and my daughter to be my dual. That way, the male/female roles will never be in doubt.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    That way, the male/female roles will never be in doubt.
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    yeah identical and dual so that we dont get gay children, they suck

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    piano genius/rocket scientist only.
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    NOOOOO! you cannot do this! That is the whole theory behind personality type. Children are born with a personality type and it manifests inside of them. A good way that story writers try to personify this is in superheroes--esspecially season one of Heroes and X-men where their "super power" is their personality type. Once they become aware they are a certain way--at first they are uncomfortable, and then they start to grow and bloom and accept their personalities.

    NOT to say you should just stand by if they are a type that you will not get along with. You can help them to develop strengths where they will be weak in the future, but for the love of god don't try to change them. They are not clay for you to mold--they mold in your belly and come out how god made them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3RainbowSprinkles View Post
    NOOOOO! you cannot do this! That is the whole theory behind personality type. Children are born with a personality type and it manifests inside of them. A good way that story writers try to personify this is in superheroes--esspecially season one of Heroes and X-men where their "super power" is their personality type. Once they become aware they are a certain way--at first they are uncomfortable, and then they start to grow and bloom and accept their personalities.

    NOT to say you should just stand by if they are a type that you will not get along with. You can help them to develop strengths where they will be weak in the future, but for the love of god don't try to change them. They are not clay for you to mold--they mold in your belly and come out how god made them.
    Who said anything about changing someone? People just write what they would like their future kids to be and I think most wrote who has NO kids. Its not about changing their kids into something different.
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    We're mostly discussing what would be most convenient here... but actually, I'm currently thinking of personality type as a learned trait.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilliand View Post
    We're mostly discussing what would be most convenient here... but actually, I'm currently thinking of personality type as a learned trait.
    Nah. All of my kids have shown their personalities in various ways from day one. Even in the womb. I'll never buy that it's learned.

    and if I got to choose my kids' personalities, it would be ISFp. That's what my son is, and he's delightful (and easy!). ESFj is also easy and great to have in a child because they love school and are socially liked and seem to enjoy life so much. I imagine ESTp toddlers could be pretty challenging. My INFp daughter is difficult even though we're identicals. She contradicts everything and worries and mopes and is the most problematic of the three.
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    Quote Originally Posted by redbaron View Post
    Nah. All of my kids have shown their personalities in various ways from day one. Even in the womb. I'll never buy that it's learned.

    and if I got to choose my kids' personalities, it would be ISFp. That's what my son is, and he's delightful (and easy!). ESFj is also easy and great to have in a child because they love school and are socially liked and seem to enjoy life so much. I imagine ESTp toddlers could be pretty challenging. My INFp daughter is difficult even though we're identicals. She contradicts everything and worries and mopes and is the most problematic of the three.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1981slater View Post
    All your family members are ethical...yours must be the merriest home in your hood!
    haha yeah and it was the same in my family of origin although we were all introverts so that calmed things down a bit. (tho there were nights at the dinner table when my dad, my brother and I would be rolling on the floor, we were laughing so hard). I have to say, it can be intense. Sometimes in a good way and something in an overly dramatic bad way. There's often TOO much emotional expression and I wish there was a better way of tempering it. I spend a lot of energy trying to be the calm, logical one.
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    Definitely an introvert for the first kid. Probably an ISFp, since they're such easy babies. I'd like a male ENTx for one of the younger kids. It's good to have a comedian around. An IXTj would be nice to have...maybe an ESFp-Fi...I get two more. An ESTj or a Female ISTp. And an INFj. Can I choose their enneagram types as well?

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