Enneagram stacking attraction

[07490]

I am pretty sure I am an So/Sx. I label myself with that stacking and most people here who has decent amount of interaction with me also seem to think so. personally, I am very attracted to people with stacking that is Sx/Sp, and some what feel a bit uncomfortable when with Sp/Sx. In terms of identical stacking, I think I can well get along with even my conflictor who has the same stacking as I do. I would proberly have a hard time with an ISTj whose an Sp/Sx, based on very little amount of experiences. What do you guys think? Does an Identical stacking have the way of an Socionic identical that long term wise the relationship will get boring? Or does the "Dual's differences" attracts other goes along with stacking as well?

[07490]

We do know that one socionic type can be variety of different Enneagram types. Each Enneagram type are NOT completely doom with another. Why I am saying this is because I think instinct stacking and how we instinctively coup with our enviornment has much more importance in terms of how we get along with each other, therefore should be look more into it than E-type compatibility. I think people can get along with other enneagram type in different way and achieve healthy relationship but may be more complicated than say Instinct stacking.

An Example:

ISTj E-1 So/Sx better than ISTj E-1 Sp/So
ISTj E-5 So/Sx better than ISTj E-5 Sp/So
ISTj E-1 So/Sx are good relationship but cannot compare which is better with ISTj E-5 So/Sx

[strrrng]

I always tend to be attracted to sx/sp's the most. With instincts, it's not about some complementary other half; they are fundamental drives, so I think one is more likely to get along best with their "identical," in that regard.

[DirectorAbbie]

What's enneagram stacking?

[Brilliand]

Enneagram type stackings

[DirectorAbbie]

Thanks for the link. I altered my siggy.

[Creepy-]

I am pretty sure I am an So/Sx. I label myself with that stacking and most people here who has decent amount of interaction with me also seem to think so. personally, I am very attracted to people with stacking that is Sx/Sp, and some what feel a bit uncomfortable when with Sp/Sx. In terms of identical stacking, I think I can well get along with even my conflictor who has the same stacking as I do. I would proberly have a hard time with an ISTj whose an Sp/Sx, based on very little amount of experiences. What do you guys think? Does an Identical stacking have the way of an Socionic identical that long term wise the relationship will get boring? Or does the "Dual's differences" attracts other goes along with stacking as well?

Well this is a pretty ancient thread, but I'm curious... assuming you still consider yourself SO/SX, why did you say here that you feel a bit uncomfortable w SP/SX types? And do those reasons still apply?

[07490]

Well this is a pretty ancient thread, but I'm curious... assuming you still consider yourself SO/SX, why did you say here that you feel a bit uncomfortable w SP/SX types? And do those reasons still apply?

SoS, like the Instant message we had before, Sp/Sx is usually very pragmatic and I have to kinda of adjust myself a little bit to them. And like you, I do feel they are a bit boring for the So/Sx.