lol.
lol.
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
Bulletsanddoves, I’m taking more time out from what I’m doing to respond to you, as I did last night, but this is the last I'm doing it.
I’m gonna write this again—and say it with me: you weren’t there.
You don’t know what you’re writing about—yet, like many people who post here, you continue to write anyway. (And in a ridiculously sanctimonious way, considering reality.)
This stuff about love and relationships is pink elephants… I know why mccosker’s upset, but it has nothing to do with any supposed love or relationship.
Anyone who claims to have any friendship with me would have to have misunderstood everything I’ve said to believe this stuff.
That’s reality.
But feel free to continue jacking off to that image you have in your mind of me and mccosker in some kind of loving embrace.
I don’t need it.
I think that's the real issueOriginally Posted by JuJu
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lol.
the bottom line is these people need to grow up about it... McCosker with what actually happened; Sam with what he would like to think happened.
Dude this forum has gotten pretty gay.
The end is nigh
Dude we should have a New Haven socionics meet.
But hopefully it wouldn't go down like the reason this thread is up.
Yeah I'm an asshole.
The end is nigh
LOL, if it went down like this thread I would commit hari-kari on the Q bridge.
Hell yeah though... would be fun
We'll prolly wanna wait for awhile though cuz we just had the new york meet up. Gotta have a cool down time and shit.
But it'll be nice for logistics reasons for Tom and myself.
The end is nigh
Bangin'! (no homo)
Wond'ring aloud, How we feel today. Last night sipped the sunset, My hand in her hair. We are our own saviours, As we start both our hearts, Beating life Into each other. ~Ian Anderson
Dude we are on a roll
The end is nigh
Ill supply the mayo! Roflmao
The end is nigh
I take my meat raw, like my anal.
Wond'ring aloud, How we feel today. Last night sipped the sunset, My hand in her hair. We are our own saviours, As we start both our hearts, Beating life Into each other. ~Ian Anderson
I prefer mine "Well done."
ah... collaboration in the school library...
Thank you free period
The end is nigh
If by collaborating you mean having intercourse.
Wond'ring aloud, How we feel today. Last night sipped the sunset, My hand in her hair. We are our own saviours, As we start both our hearts, Beating life Into each other. ~Ian Anderson
Or as a phrase I heard coined a few years ago (blah I remembered as it made me laugh) but in this instance it was referred to getting it wrong doggy style (I think, cause the guy that said it.. I think he's by), "A long one up the wrong one"
LII-Ne
"Come to think of it, there are already a million monkeys on a million typewriters, and the Usenet is NOTHING like Shakespeare!"
- Blair Houghton
Johari
JuJu my friend, i'd sleep with you for £5. And you know, there's guys out there doing it for free so I reckon this is a good deal for me.
But..you're hot. Heh, so I reckon even five quid is too much money for you to even bother to spend hehe
Hope you're doing OK with stuff bro, an aw that!![]()
Fuck you. Stop trying to absolve responsibility by making gay jokes and try to 'hehe' your way out of things. You don't get out that easily.
Listen idiot, some guys who like other guys- can also fall in love with them. Not just in lust with them. If you can't or won't allow yourself to fall in love with another male- then don't drag in other men that actually can.
Oh well. I believe in karma, cause what else can you do about this? It's over and done with. When Sean asked you if you really loved him you should have said 'Listen I gotta be honest. I like you but I don't think I love you. I'd like for us to just be fuck buddies, if that's okay with you.' Then if Sean got all pissy- *he* would be the bad guy. But you lied and said you did really love him. You communicated poorly. And let him on. Then he gets punished just because he was the one that reacted most strongly. Then you can act calm and rico suave and then try to find your next victim unscathed. Oooh. You should be banned *at least* as long as Sean. Probably more.
The only reason why I apologized for ranting is I don't really *like* having to be this offensive. Who would? It's annoying but necessary (but I, as an ethical type feel entitled to say something) I'd much rather be my cute and passive self, and just 'go with the flow, man.' But this happens too frequently in same-sex relationships that I've had enough. Sean is kinda like a brother to me, as well as almost every gay guy on this forum. And Justin has a pattern of doing this with people, obviously. He gets to brag 'Haha that person actually thought we were all close and shit! What a fucking emo!' when *he* was the one that lied just to get some play. What a selfish, immature and narcissistic thing to do to somebody. You ain't into anybody but yourself and seeing how many people you can trick into liking you.
*rolls eyes at Nick* No. I'm not being politically correct. Don't play that card.
If two boys want to hook up and do whatever nasty things they want- that's fine. But lying and acting like you're really into somebody? There's no way you can justify something like that. Nobody is a mind reader, if somebody says they love you - you either believe them or you don't. Maybe you want to blame Sean for believing him. But I blame Justin for lying in the first place.
There's nothing "politically correct" (what a useless phrase with no proof) about that. It's just heartless and wrong. And anybody with half a brain would agree with me on that.
Political correction isn't the same thing as having a shred of decency.
Don't say you love somebody when you don't. Don't cheapen the word, the feeling, the experience.
But then again why should I even care? Justin is only capable of narcissism, until he proves otherwise. Sean has the capability to actually love *another.* He already has the greater gift, even if he can be treated worser for it.
You have heard one side of the story, much like me. But I'm not the one raving on some internet forum about a guy I barely know, in some blind pursuit of moral restitution. No one
-cares- about this issue, and if they did, taking it up with one of the involved parties privately would be the correct course of action. But haranguing Justin for what you *believe* he did, based on what Sean told you, is stupid and pointless. You can't know the full situation -- period. This isn't a gay rights rally, and the person you're speaking out against isn't Uncle Sam; it's an issue between two people, and you're blowing it way out of proportion, to satisfy your own personal goals.
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I understand this isn't a gay right's rally. But that's how you're taking it. =/ If that's how I'm coming off to you, I apologize. But that's merely one perception.
Okay say Sean was 'Seanetta' and a girl. The same concept would apply and he'd still be wrong.
I'm mad that somebody I cared about got treated poorly. *shrug*
My only intent, as always, is sticking up for people I care about. And well, if anybody wants to take Justin's side - they are welcome to do it, I obviously more clearly empathsize with Sean here. And yeah that's blind or one-sided but *shrug* I don't care. Sean was the one that was unfairly banned to me anyway- he just needed more defense. Most everybody was quick to act like Sean was the bad guy just cause he lost his temper easier.
If Justin had more money and was clearly the one in most power, then that only *further* drives the point home he should have been more careful with this young man. Maybe some people who are more 'libertarian' than me (if we want to bring politics in this, yuck) would disagree. But I can't and don't.
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LII-Ne
"Come to think of it, there are already a million monkeys on a million typewriters, and the Usenet is NOTHING like Shakespeare!"
- Blair Houghton
Johari
Yes, except the "concept" could be wrong or incomplete.
As I would be, too. I was just asking you to consider the fact that Sean could just as easily be construing the story to fit his desires, mitigate his feelings, etc.I'm mad that somebody I cared about got treated poorly. *shrug*
He was banned because he transgressed a code of conduct which is enjoined upon all members of this forum -- nothing more, nothing less. Your personal feelings are clouding your assessment of the situation.My only intent, as always, is sticking up for people I care about. And well, if anybody wants to take Justin's side - they are welcome to do it, I obviously more clearly empathsize with Sean here. And yeah that's blind or one-sided but *shrug* I don't care. Sean was the one that was unfairly banned to me anyway- he just needed more defense. Most everybody was quick to act like Sean was the bad guy just cause he lost his temper easier.
Why is his financial status or age relevant? That brings up an entire context of the situation which no one besides those two is fully aware of, and which is surely not worth debating -- let alone being used as a support for some biased accusation.If Justin had more money and was clearly the one in most power, then that only *further* drives the point home he should have been more careful with this young man. Maybe some people who are more 'libertarian' than me (if we want to bring politics in this, yuck) would disagree. But I can't and don't.
Exactly.
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Now frankly, I don't give a shit what you think of me, Bulletsanddoves.
Regardless, seeing as you're obviously clamoring for the nitty-gritty of it, I'll be direct:
One night when he was here, I snorted four pills of ecstasy. An hour or two into it, I let him suck me off... Simple.
I'm not going to lie to you, or anyone; the last day he was here, I woke up and found him spooning me. At that point, I told him I was taking him home... And I did.
The word "relationship," or God save me, "love" was never broached until yesterday--and in that case, by him solely make a scene, and to embarrass... It's posturing on his part because I would not allow him to move into my place when he wanted to move from his Mom's house.
Once he blew up my phone, calling 21 times in less than 15 minutes. (In other words, his story yesterday is not the first crazily off-putting thing he's done.)
Now, what you've written regarding what I did and said, my motivations--is absolute rubbish.
Frankly, I haven't followed what Sean's done over the past few months because as far as I'm concerned, out of sight, out of mind. That's how I live my life. It's not that I'm callous; it's just that I'm too damn busy living my own life.
Unlike you--who clearly has a problem, (why? really think about ithas had the wool pulled over his eyes, and honestly, should mind his own fucking business.
Your posts are an insult to me.
One more time: I am not here for you.
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And who are you exactly?
And why are you more interested in my past than I am?
Fuck you! Claiming to know my "offense." Standing back and judging a person of whom you know absolutely nothing, and a situation about which you know only a lie.
Did you read what Jesus said to the hypocritical Pharisees when they wanted to stone an accused adulteress..? "Whomever among you is without sin, let him cast the first stone."
They all stepped away.
Step away.
lmfaoOriginally Posted by JuJu
edit: LMFAO
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LII-Ne
"Come to think of it, there are already a million monkeys on a million typewriters, and the Usenet is NOTHING like Shakespeare!"
- Blair Houghton
Johari
Besides being somewhat surprised most of our forum is gay, it's pretty obvious bullets is taking the death threat mans side because he is sexually attracted to him and wants to bone / spoon with him.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly