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    Default Why do most assume I am SLE-Ti?

    I could be either. Who knows. Who cares.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
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    maybe your agressiveness.

    If I may stereotype ESTP's (or ESTp's as you would like to see it),

    Se subtype: the standup comedian: joking, likes performing, likes attention
    Ti subtype: the boxer: more agressive and loud, ready and not afraid, less attention seeking

    Just my point of view.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    maybe your agressiveness.

    If I may stereotype ESTP's (or ESTp's as you would like to see it),

    Se subtype: the standup comedian: joking, likes performing, likes attention
    Ti subtype: the boxer: more agressive and loud, ready and not afraid, less attention seeking

    Just my point of view.
    By that definition... I'm not SLE.

    I avoid the stereotypical "fearless", "ready to kick the shit out of you!" stereotype of the SLE, but manage to fall right into the loud, aggressive, confident, self-centred, playful, attention-seeking categories.

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    I wouldn't call you aggressive. You seem harmless. You are, though quite playful and 'rambunctious' is a better word. However you are not intimidating in the least. Your frat boy, gonzo porn-esque howard stern-y style of humor isn't really biting so much as it is juvenile. But I kinda like the same stuff so yeah. I don't mind.

    As for confident? Yes, I agree that you're self-confident. And loud? Maybe... you're definitely extroverted though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I wouldn't call you aggressive. You seem harmless.
    Yeah, you are right. I'm not aggressive. It's just that some pussy Alphas and Deltas don't like the fact that I might "come on too strong". I am quite intense in real life conversation; maybe that's what they see as aggressive. Also, I am quite confrontational and challenging, and some people who aren't used to my tone can perceive this as being aggressive.

    You are, though quite playful and 'rambunctious' is a better word. However you are not intimidating in the least. Your frat boy, gonzo porn-esque howard stern-y style of humor isn't really biting so much as it is juvenile. But I kinda like the same stuff so yeah. I don't mind.
    lol

    I remember reading about Howard Stern a while ago. Can't remember why. You're probably right. It is all those things. I truly do belong in America.



    I'm certainly not British.

    As for confident? Yes, I agree that you're self-confident. And loud? Maybe... you're definitely extroverted though.
    Again, it's an Alpha/Delta issue with my levels of "loudness". I used to get sick of people telling me to be quiet when there was no need for it. Okay, discussing sensitive topics like why a lot of black people are into knife crime while walking through a predominantly black neighbourhood may be reason to keep the noise levels low, but when it's just ordinary conversation - no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    I wouldn't call you aggressive. You seem harmless. You are, though quite playful and 'rambunctious' is a better word. However you are not intimidating in the least. Your frat boy, gonzo porn-esque howard stern-y style of humor isn't really biting so much as it is juvenile. But I kinda like the same stuff so yeah. I don't mind.

    As for confident? Yes, I agree that you're self-confident. And loud? Maybe... you're definitely extroverted though.
    This pissed me off for some reason.....I guess I pictured it being said to me.....


    I'm just saying, its kind of annoying.
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    I'm sorry I pissed you off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    Kelly, that makes no sense to me. What are you talking about?


    Um, I was just saying thaaaat, if B&D had addressed ME that way, I'd be annoyed....


    ....I guess the only reason I'm mentioning is to point out how annoying it is? Guess no one else cares/relates.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    maybe your agressiveness.

    If I may stereotype ESTP's (or ESTp's as you would like to see it),

    Se subtype: the standup comedian: joking, likes performing, likes attention
    Ti subtype: the boxer: more agressive and loud, ready and not afraid, less attention seeking

    Just my point of view.
    Way I saw it (mainly based on how the two subtypes are described), SLE-Se can be more outwardly aggressive (as well as more flamboyant and playful), whereas SLE-Ti is more subdued, more likely to keep an eye on their surroundings for ways to take control and assert their influence.

    Quote Originally Posted by ladyinred View Post
    is this accurate??
    Sort of. It's accurate to the extent that it describes SLEs as an aggressive and playful type focused mainly on making an impact in its surroundings. As I just mentioned though I think he got the subtypes wrong. Here's what Gulenko has to say on the matter:

    Quote Originally Posted by Gulenko on SLE-Se
    Sharp, demonstrative, attacking style of behaviour. Expressive and expansive to the point of being aggressive. Feels at home in emergencies; find themselves in conflicts; can pressure people in order to rapidly introduce order. If conflicts do not occur, they can provoke some in order to then take the initiative into their own hands. Emotional and sociable, will want the attention of more than one person of the opposite sex. Women also display initiative in their acquaintances with men. This subtype is sinewy, mobile, often thin, has a well developed taste, is an epicure. In fashion are drawn to refinement and prestige.
    Quote Originally Posted by Gulenko on SLE-Ti
    Prefer to remain in the shadows, not to demonstrate their aspirations, but constantly hold their hands on the pulse of all proceedings around them. Outwardly appears balanced and phlegmatic. Before acting, checks all versions of possible consequences and only then enters into the game. Distrustful and careful, skeptic, conservative and realistic. Because they are not very sociable, may appear to be introverted. If they have their aim on a victim, they act slowly, by the method of the "compressive ring".
    Quote Originally Posted by ladyinred View Post
    okay, thanks.. i need to look more into the enneagram then. what types are SLEs usually, are SLE-Tis one type typically a type and SLE-Ses typically a type??
    SLE-Se: 8w7, 7w8, 3w4, 6w7 (counter-phobic).
    SLE-Ti: 8wX, 3wX, 1wX, 6wX (counter-phobic).
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    What do these signs mean—, , etc.? Why cannot socionists use symbols Ne, Ni etc. as in MBTI? Just because they have somewhat different meaning. Socionics and MBTI, each in its own way, have slightly modified the original Jung's description of his 8 psychological types. For this reason, (Ne) is not exactly the same as Ne in MBTI.

    Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function (extraverted sensing) is first and foremost associated with control and expansion of personal space (which sometimes can manifest in excessive aagression, but often also manifests in a capability of managing lots of people and things).

    For this reason, we consider comparison between MBTI types and socionic types by functions to be rather useless than useful.

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    SLE-Ti:1wX
    No way

    To be honest I am not even sure six exist for them.
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    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 07490 View Post
    To be honest I am not even sure six exist for them.
    Sure it does.

    Other Sixes adopt the opposite strategy of dealing with fear, and become counterphobic, essentially taking a defiant stand against whatever they find threatening. This is the Six who takes on authority or who adopts a dare devil attitude towards physical danger. Counterphobic Sixes can be agressive and, rather than looking for authorities, can adopt a rebellious or anti-authoritarian demeanor. Counterphobic Sixes are often unaware of the fear that motivates their actions.
    Any type can be a Six, counterphobia's the reason why. Beta STs could easily be counterphobic.
    What do these signs mean—, , etc.? Why cannot socionists use symbols Ne, Ni etc. as in MBTI? Just because they have somewhat different meaning. Socionics and MBTI, each in its own way, have slightly modified the original Jung's description of his 8 psychological types. For this reason, (Ne) is not exactly the same as Ne in MBTI.

    Just one example: in MBTI, Se (extraverted sensing) is associated with life pleasures, excitement etc. By contrast, the socionic function (extraverted sensing) is first and foremost associated with control and expansion of personal space (which sometimes can manifest in excessive aagression, but often also manifests in a capability of managing lots of people and things).

    For this reason, we consider comparison between MBTI types and socionic types by functions to be rather useless than useful.

    -Victor Gulenko, Dmitri Lytov

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksei View Post
    Sure it does.


    Any type can be a Six, counterphobia's the reason why. Beta STs could easily be counterphobic.
    You have any real life people example? I would gladly take a look.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    1)
    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Se subtype would make more sense to me as well. You're much closer to gamma and I would even consider Se-SEE as your type, be it just because of your physical resemblance to Scarlett Johanson.

    Seriously though, you're too far from ILE-Ti.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    Se subtype would make more sense to me as well. You're much closer to gamma and I would even consider Se-SEE as your type, be it just because of your physical resemblance to Scarlett Johanson.

    Seriously though, you're too far from ILE-Ti.
    Watch your bum, Ez!

    Though I can see the point being made here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ifmd95 View Post
    Ezra isn't the prototype and then on the Beta forum recently i noticed a "contradiction" in how he may also draw attention to his Fi standing with the forum (which the Ti subtype would be insecure about.)
    Maybe it's because I'm just so fucking confident in my capacities I override all of that. I shit on Fi PoLR insecurities.

    i hadn't entirely conceived what a Se-SLE would be like until more recently (a lot of my past Se-SLE typings probably better fit the prototype, e.g. Mike Tyson.) but as for Se-SLE themselves, i think Ezra probably is one. note his past self-typings tend away from Alpha, or how he receives Ne arguments like Ti-ILE user Steve's.
    Oh I see how you're working. Basically, if I was Ti subtype, that would make me closer to Alpha, and if I was Se subtype, that would make me closer to Gamma (based on each quadra's values).

    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    Se subtype would make more sense to me as well. You're much closer to gamma and I would even consider Se-SEE as your type, be it just because of your physical resemblance to Scarlett Johanson.

    Seriously though, you're too far from ILE-Ti.
    Yeah, I've always definitely been Se/Ni. To consider otherwise is just fucking... stupid.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hostage_Child View Post
    I've seen a lot of SLEs. One kid actually took a test, and yeah, it was MBTI and he got ESTP but I think it was accurate for him. You, from your posts, remind me of him. Def. not the stereotypical SLE but I do remember him telling how women generally are inferior physically in doing heavy manual labor, and to me that makes sense, so when all the girls were going in a hissy fit at him (this was a discussion why boys have been more valued in China than girls.) and I just turned to him and started chuckling and he laughed back because he made an alright point and it was totally ironic and it was said just to rile the girls up and I'm like the only one not offended whatsoever. Yeah, that guy was interesting.
    Sounds like my kinda guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ifmd95 View Post
    a prototypical Ti-creative's capacities side-step or substitute for Fi, more so than call attention to it.
    I don't understand that sentence.

    well not everyone is as aware of Gamma values. when i observe Gamma values, more superficial charachteristics of theirs stand out and they can resemble Alphas (at a distance).
    I suppose it's easy initially to get mixed up between opposing quadra types of the same club. Like I saw my brother as SF club for definite, but I didn't know if he was an SEE or ESE until I observed him more closely. Hence, "quasi identity"!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Who cares.
    Precisely.
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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