Quote Originally Posted by reckoner View Post
I think deep down, what it comes down to is that I really cherish deep one-on-one connections, and if there are more than one or two people tagging along, social get-togethers usually result in me feeling emotionally empty.
Amen to that, I couldn't have said it better myself. I can really enjoy the atmosphere of parties and other gatherings though, but I still virtually always focus on one or two people at a time.
But I don't relate to the avoiding going out that other INFjs here talk about. I usually consider a day without socialising/going out to do something else wasted. I'm super bad at calling people though, but I hardly ever turn down any invitations without an imperative reason.