No, I was kidding. The only reason why i though i was an IEE was because i was no way a COntrary to ritella, I mean that all that was, and maybe I think it also has something to do with Winterpark. I think he was my dual, he couldn't be an LSI so I had to be an IEE.Originally Posted by redbaron
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
lol get ready for the pathetic... I'm 35 and never been on a real date or had a real gf. so my answer to the OP is ALL OF THEM. haha!(
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real gf's are overrated.lol get ready for the pathetic... I'm 35 and never been on a real date or had a real gf. so my answer to the OP is ALL OF THEM. haha!
I've dated.. INFj, ESTp, ESFj, ENFj, ISFj, and I'm going out with an ENFp (I think?) now; sooo all the other ones?
Edit: My current gf is INFp! BIG ERROR! (it definitely seems that way, a lot...)
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Wond'ring aloud, How we feel today. Last night sipped the sunset, My hand in her hair. We are our own saviours, As we start both our hearts, Beating life Into each other. ~Ian Anderson
My response:
lol get ready for the pathetic... I'm 25 and never been on a real date or had a real bf. so my answer to the OP is ALL OF THEM. haha!
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
aww. i'm flattered.
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
There is NOTHING wrong with that, Ritella and BG. I was married by the time I was 25 (actually I was 24) and I was far too young!
IEI-Fe 4w3
I've dated SEE, ILE, SLE and ILI.
Order of compatibility ranked lowest to highest - ILE, SLE, ILI/SEE .
Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves.
John Muir
LOL, you dated two FI polr typed
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
It doesn't bother me that much tbh. However, there is a sort of disconnect that you increasingly feel between yourself and your age group (actually everybody if you dwell on it too much). IDK it was much worse when I was a virgin still (I didn't lose that until my mid/late 20s) and still is there a bit. I'm not sure how to put it into words, something along the lines of this... because of the total lack of experience you feel like you have no place or nothing to say as your friends are all discussing their relationships and dating practices, etc. You feel as though you can't honestly say, "yeah I know what you mean" and stuff like that, because, well... you really don't. Then, because of media and, well, just society in general, you also have to face the fact that even the majority of older teens have more experience in that stuff than you do.
Eventually I realized how little this really matters, but I have to admit that it's still there in the back of my head. It's something that makes me really nervous about attempting to get into relationships too, because I feel as though I need to be upfront about it, but that I'll be seen as weird, childish, not appealing in some way to others of my age.
sigh... it's one of those things that I'm sure means nothing (or very little) from the outside looking in, but when you're stuck in that position it can really make you feel isolated and ummm idk... broken.
awwww. <3333 i totally empathize with this, especially the "broken" part. i used to describe myself like that all the time.
i've gone through a new life phase (maybe it's the prozac- I have no idea), in which I don't feel so "flawed," but i do feel.....idk.... like, probabilistically, I'll be single for the rest of my life. I mean, if I wanted to, I could probably get a boyfriend. But I can't really force myself to "just date" anyone. And I never really like people. That's sort of hard to explain. I really like EVERYONE. I'm like "oh this person is interesting," etc. But, I NEVER think "oh I'd like to date this guy." Everyone just seems generic? after a while.
AND the 2 or so guys per year that I do "fall in love" with are always ones I BARELY know- like the guy who I see on the subway sometimes. Ugh. It's like I'm Amelie. Except there's never the happy ending.
Because I'm too shy. OR when I try to be assertive I just come off WAY too strong and turn the guy into a one night stand. OR he's really into me and I get instantly repulsed. OR I think he's boring because idk most people are? OR I just know he's not someone I can see myself with long term. OR I'm scared he's too good for me and I blow him up into some deity and can barely stutter in his presence.
Bleh.
I think, ultimately, I am a picky bitch who deserves to die alone.
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
Ritella sounds like ..... a lot of INFjs I know here.
They seem to think that relationships never change, in terms of being single. "omg omg i'm going to die old and single", .... but I think that's just because they see themselves ultimately as unable to initiate and sustain a relationship. Lol, and then these "patterns" and "past examples" create a "likliehood" that nothing will ever "change".... it's very self defeating.
So they sort of just sit around waiting for someone to do something about it.... which is, actually, appealing from my perspective. Not that I like the idea of a person feeling lonely or helpless, but that I like to be the person that "does something about it".
Some people are selective, but sometimes it's also a matter of unrealistic expectations from other people and a somewhat aggrandized view of oneself. There is a difference between waiting for someone you are really compatible with, and, standing back thinking you are totally awesome and everyone else is just shit, thus leading to disappointment and/or a skewed sense of compatibility.I think, ultimately, I am a picky bitch who deserves to die alone.
Not saying you are particularly one or the other, though. I advocate, strongly, the former of those two options. The latter is not really any different than its inverted form - thinking you suck too much to be in a relationship. Both of those things require some self improvement before you can even step into a relationship feasibly, anyways.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
umm.. which type haven't i "dated" according to this definition "let's define "dating" as getting to know someone...."
ENTj, ESTj, ESFj, ISFj, ISTj, INTj, INFj, ESFp, INTp
you made me realize i've dated almost all irrationals.
but i've only been in a relationship with a ENFj(3 torturous years) and ENTp(on-going, though i'm not entirely sure of his type. but ILE is what i think now).
ENFps are the best to hang out with so far. umm, i mean to date. they're accepting people, fun, etc. i dunno, but it confuses me why they chose to hang out with me.
INTp
sx/sp
I'm probably the only one here who have not been on a date or have a bf before.
I thought you have kids?I'm probably the only one here who have not been on a date or have a bf before.
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
Lol....Nope. I guess you must have mixed me up with other forum member(s)?
According to some other posts, that's not the case.I'm probably the only one here who have not been on a date or have a bf before.
If it makes you feel any better, I've also not ever had a bf before. Offers, though. But just those guys who, you know, no one would want to be with anyway....
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
About what UDP said.
This is what a certain IJ-Ne said to me about finding a bf.
"I'm just about ready to get a man. I haven't been in a relationship for seven years. I'm happy about my life and I have two cats and a horse. But it's like I have this thing inside of me screaming for something." ... "What do you mean my life would change? Everything would be the same as before. I would have everything I had before. I would just ALSO have a boyfriend."
First eliminate every possible source of error. Thence success is inevitable.
HmmI am this way too. I have had a horrible ISTP BF, and one sort-of friend /BF ISFp. I was not in love with either one. Other people I have actuially "fallen in love with" tend to be totally out of reach socially, or literally (such as living on the other side of the world). I mean, I am a real mess when it comes to understanding the reality of an actual relationship vs my idealized version of someone.
This causes me GREAT pain, and wastes sooo much of my time. I think I'm gonna die alone too
EII 4w5
so/sx (?)
Well I'm here on the board to make you look less pathetic
...the human race will disappear. Other races will appear and disappear in turn. The sky will become icy and void, pierced by the feeble light of half-dead stars. Which will also disappear. Everything will disappear. And what human beings do is just as free of sense as the free motion of elementary particles. Good, evil, morality, feelings? Pure 'Victorian fictions'.
INTp
All I can say is, you're definetly not alone.
awwww. <3333 i totally empathize with this, especially the "broken" part. i used to describe myself like that all the time.
i've gone through a new life phase (maybe it's the prozac- I have no idea), in which I don't feel so "flawed," but i do feel.....idk.... like, probabilistically, I'll be single for the rest of my life. I mean, if I wanted to, I could probably get a boyfriend. But I can't really force myself to "just date" anyone. And I never really like people. That's sort of hard to explain. I really like EVERYONE. I'm like "oh this person is interesting," etc. But, I NEVER think "oh I'd like to date this guy." Everyone just seems generic? after a while.
AND the 2 or so guys per year that I do "fall in love" with are always ones I BARELY know- like the guy who I see on the subway sometimes. Ugh. It's like I'm Amelie. Except there's never the happy ending.
Because I'm too shy. OR when I try to be assertive I just come off WAY too strong and turn the guy into a one night stand. OR he's really into me and I get instantly repulsed. OR I think he's boring because idk most people are? OR I just know he's not someone I can see myself with long term. OR I'm scared he's too good for me and I blow him up into some deity and can barely stutter in his presence.
Bleh.
I think, ultimately, I am a picky bitch who deserves to die alone.
You guys with Sx instinct and how it is so easy for you guys to be with a partner.Bah... What are you complaining about. I was married to my second husband by the time I was 25....(and yes, there's a story to explain why)
Too young, yes.
I've dated ENTp, ISFp, INFp, ENFj, ESTp, ISTj, INTp, ESFp, ENFp, ISTp.
They were all good in different ways.
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
hmm interesting
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
I (31) can say from experience (34) that it doesn't matter, not to me anyway.
INFj
I'm convinced I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life as well. I think I it might be for my own good, as well as the sanity of any poor soul I might date.
All I need is couple of cats and I'm set for life.
EII
I'll tell you what
there is plenty wrong with me
but I fixed up a few old buildings
and I've planted a few trees.
If Brendan Fraser is my dual I will most certainly be alone forever.
EII
I'll tell you what
there is plenty wrong with me
but I fixed up a few old buildings
and I've planted a few trees.
Haha, not a fan of the Fraserbangs?
All 16 I am as fussy as all hell.
Nope. Nothing about him is appealing, not in the slightest.
EII
I'll tell you what
there is plenty wrong with me
but I fixed up a few old buildings
and I've planted a few trees.
good. that leaves all of him for ME.
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
Aw! Listen, there is nothing wrong with being selective. Relationships are serious business (to me at least). What you said reminds me a lot of my ILI friend (also, Amelie is her favorite movie and I know that she relates to her character a lot). But some guy will like her and she will over think the whole thing to death and freak herself out and end up avoiding him forever.
In any case, I am an advocate of taking things slow so that you get to really know someone before making any sort of commitment and/or if things start to go awry you can back out without being too emotionally invested and thus preserve your feelings a bit, heh.
Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves.
John Muir
lol get ready for the pathetic... I'm 35 and never been on a real date or had a real gf. so my answer to the OP is ALL OF THEM. haha!Hah...so I'm not alone after all
awwww. <3333 i totally empathize with this, especially the "broken" part. i used to describe myself like that all the time.
i've gone through a new life phase (maybe it's the prozac- I have no idea), in which I don't feel so "flawed," but i do feel.....idk.... like, probabilistically, I'll be single for the rest of my life. I mean, if I wanted to, I could probably get a boyfriend. But I can't really force myself to "just date" anyone. And I never really like people. That's sort of hard to explain. I really like EVERYONE. I'm like "oh this person is interesting," etc. But, I NEVER think "oh I'd like to date this guy." Everyone just seems generic? after a while.
AND the 2 or so guys per year that I do "fall in love" with are always ones I BARELY know- like the guy who I see on the subway sometimes. Ugh. It's like I'm Amelie. Except there's never the happy ending.
Because I'm too shy. OR when I try to be assertive I just come off WAY too strong and turn the guy into a one night stand. OR he's really into me and I get instantly repulsed. OR I think he's boring because idk most people are? OR I just know he's not someone I can see myself with long term. OR I'm scared he's too good for me and I blow him up into some deity and can barely stutter in his presence.
Bleh.
I think, ultimately, I am a picky bitch who deserves to die alone.I forgot what I did a search for just now, but I stumbled upon this thread and BG/Ritella pretty much sum up my sentiments here, heh (especially Ritella's bit about falling for people you barely know
). Reading this makes me feel a lot better about my own situation at least :wink: Mhmmm...I think I shall embrace my celibacy and become a monk
Have not dated:
Alphas: LII
Betas: EIE, LSI, SLE, IEI
Gammas: SEE, ILI, LIE
Deltas: SLI
Interesting, I've dated most types in alpha and delta. And no betas. Never thought of that.
All of them. I'm a prude so I don't date unless I intend to marry.
phobic 6w5 sp/so/sx (tri-type: 6w5/1w9/4w5)
Fi-ESI
have not dated:
delta: EII, LSE, IEE, SLI
alpha: LII, SEI
beta: EIE, LSI
gamma: ESI, LIE, SEE, ILI
i've dated all alphas and betas, with betas being the last three relationships over the last 23 years.
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
that's cause we rock.
IEI-Fe 4w3
trudat
ILE
those who are easily shocked.....should be shocked more often
I have only dated ESI, IEI and IEE.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
I have not dated ILE and LII and I'm not going too either.
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