Nobody is forced to believe a certain type is this and that, It's their own personal experiences that will affect how they see ESTp and not my post. and my post is expression my opinion that you can not change.
1)
A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!
2)
A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.