What do you do in the presence of an ESFj who's being WAY overly dramatic in a negative way? Expressing frustration, not directly at you but about a particular logistical situation (such as something in the house never working right or the traffic being out of control). Do you:
a) ignore him, hope it will go away
b) try to change the subject, distract him with your randomness
c) promise him lots of good sex if he'll shut up
d) start singing songs from your childhood
e) see if you have any food or candy to feed him
f) tell him how much you love his mother
g) remind him that there are starving children in Africa
help me.


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help. (The ESE I'm dealing with just gets so hyper and emotional and wants to do everything, and freaks out at a lot of things, so it loses sight of what to focus on and just keeps spinning its wheels). Try go direct it towards what it should be working on or focusing on. And try to give good advice about when something is enough or done. But definitely try to be calm... MORE excitation isn't going to help.
