Quote Originally Posted by BFGDoomer View Post
Happened just today. A short interaction between my father (XLE, seems to have both strong Ne and Se, though i'm leaning slightly towards SLE) and me (leaning towards LII for now) while making dinner.

Father: Don't cut the buns on the chopping board used for vegetables.
Me: Okay.
I proceed to cut the buns on another board
Father: Don't cut them on the board used for meat either.
Me: Okay, i'll take a fresh one.
I cut the first bun absentmindedly on the new chopping board, but for the second bun i went back to the meat board
Father: WHAT DID I JUST TELL YOU!?
Me: Oops...

I was a bit taken aback, honestly. He usually gets really annoyed at me for not paying attention or performing a task with my mind somewhere completely else. He has a way of startling me with sudden outbursts of frustration.
In his defense, i do this all the time.
Is this an example of rampant Ne vs 'correcting' Se in it's 'homefield'?
ILEs don't really care where and how you cut your bread. They don't pay attention to details like this, unless it concerns some "system" that they carefully set up and don't want you to interfere with it. Even then the delivery is rarely sharp. It's usually SLEs who give you commands and then expect you to absorb and follow them immediately on the spot, a per their leading Se as well as them being "Declaring" types. Notice that what he tells you sounds like holographic-negativist a la ESI: he tells you what NOT to do instead of telling you what you SHOULD do, effectively cutting off and eliminating that behavior, which is result-negativist trait.

Keeping their environment in constant "ready mode" is also one of SLE traits. I don't perceive it as being startling, more like waking up, but that's probably the difference between Se PoLR and Se-seeking.