spill, people!
spill, people!
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
Cause dramas, order me around, kill my spontanity
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ENFp - Fi 7w6 sp/sx
The Ineffable IEI
The Einstein ENTp
johari nohari
http://www.mypersonality.info/ssmall/
i will answer my own question:
you need to KILL ME. A paradox? Maybe. But that is the only way.
EII; E6(w5)
i am flakey
- Play innocent when you know and I know you've done something wrong
- Make the same mistakes over and over again despite me patiently showing you over and over again how to resolve it
- Make me feel like you don't understand me
- Appear to not listen to me when I'm speaking to you
- Misinterpret what I say and then use that information against me
ETA: I agree that hate is a strong word. I would say it frustrates me more than anything.
Last edited by tereg; 12-13-2008 at 04:59 PM.
INFj
9w1 sp/sx
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ENFp - Fi 7w6 sp/sx
The Ineffable IEI
The Einstein ENTp
johari nohari
http://www.mypersonality.info/ssmall/
... tell me I've done something wrong without having all the required information or out of preconceived ideas about what's wrong or right.
unforgivable sin: tell me I did something wrong when I have actually done very well.
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
exist
...the human race will disappear. Other races will appear and disappear in turn. The sky will become icy and void, pierced by the feeble light of half-dead stars. Which will also disappear. Everything will disappear. And what human beings do is just as free of sense as the free motion of elementary particles. Good, evil, morality, feelings? Pure 'Victorian fictions'.
INTp
Have a very blasé attitude about your job when you have responsibility, and I end up going in after you to take care of it because you don't care about your responsibility.
INFj
9w1 sp/sx
to make me hate you, i need you to place 8 billion unreasonable demands on me about how to get along with you.
6w5 sx
model Φ: -+0
sloan - rcuei
Harm people I care about, animal cruelty, basically people who get pleasure from inflicting suffering on others.
Break my trust; prove disloyal to me or someone I care about.
ILE
7w8 so/sp
Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
Too many ways to list. Honestly.
maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
go ask the frog what the scorpion knows
Be more than 45 minutes late everywhere.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
the easiest way is for you to say something stupid and act like you know what you're talking about and argue with me about it, and i already hate most of you on this board. well.. you know, it actually varies across different social situations. in real life i'd say it's to be loud over stupid things and judgmental over stupid things.
or in discussions it's to try to gain alpha male status over me, or for females it's to act like you're a queen
Probably pay no attention whatsoever to the writer, artist 'background music' where people sort things out psychologically, internally. So they can't be truly self-renewing.
I've learned that, I don't care if you're busy or pushy, as long as you can discuss internal processes. I think people are really onto something here, if they take psychology/self-help seriously. But everything worth taking seriously, is worth making fun of- so you should do it in humor.
That's why I'm addicted to philosophical, idealistic media with good moral messages that are never too preachy. I think this is because, I grew up in a family where basically, self-hatred and learning how to forgive were taught rather than going on the offensive.
Basically I'm all about seeing my true internal moods and struggles displayed externally. Either through a work of art or whatever.
I'm not talking about a play with everything, but the exact philosophical struggle acted out. Buffy had tons of this.
Pink's new song, umm what's it called has the same thing. She's an SLE isn't she? Yeah, Betas are good at this I think.
Say something stupid in a knowing tone (and continue to express it in the face of logic); impose your idiocy and arrogance on me, in some expectance of my deference; be a maudlin ******; convey a lack of self-sufficiency and willpower.
4w3-5w6-8w7
not wipe your ass and walk past me while im watching a football game
There’s not anyone I really hate, but there are people I avoid... people who are passive-aggressive; turn everything into a melodrama; whine/complain a lot; and/or seem untrustworthy; etc.
Overly aggressive, loud, emotional and judgemental people.
Ritella,
If you hate me it's your problem, not mine.
Hate is what I feel for you
And I want you to know that I want you dead
You're late for the execution
If you're not here soon, I'll kill your friend instead
I can be loud, hyper and annoying. Giddy and dumb.
But then I can also be quiet, overly subdued, placating, and considerate.
That said, I don't really mind if people oscillate between love and hate.
One of the greatest feelings in the world, is when some girl says "You piss me off more than anyone else I know. Not even .. (various people that they are around often) can piss me as much as you do. Maybe it's some kind of sadistic side to me, but to me it feels damn good to know that I can really get to people, and make them feel something, even if it's hate. It's just L .. I .. F .. E
I remember when I was young, sometimes people used to spin out, and they'd get really pissed off at me. Like really really pissed off at me. They'd yell, they'd scream, they'd curse. They'd nearly hit me. And I'd just take it, and they would keep trying to increase the amount of intensity they were throwing at me. And for some reason I kind of liked that. Thing is, afterwards, sometimes it'd be like "I feel better now", and to me, it's like I kind of liked it when people were ready-to-express. I didn't like to feel like people were holding back, that they were constantly trying to control their feelings, and the effect of them. That sometimes they just went with whatever they felt in the moment, whether or not it made sense, whether rational or irrational. Unconsidered, unhindered, uncompromised. Just raw pure expression.
Thing is - as soon as you allow people to be completely raw with you, they find it hard to stay with feelings of hate. Most people, they can't fully engage in the moment, towards you, and actually continue with hate. They have to go off to the side, they have to try and "shift" it to being about something else etc. They can't go straight at you, fill of hate, they'll say "I hate you" whilst not looking directly at you etc. Even the people, who can look you in the eye and tell you that they hate you, it's like they go kind of vacant in the eyes. It's like they want to see you react to their "hate" they want to "move" you they want to "shift" you, they find it hard to stay with their feelings unless you are emotionally effected, shifted, affected by their feelings of hate.
And so really, it's quite safe, you just make sure people, are completely direct, try and help them be open, allow them to say what it is that they feel etc -
And you'll notice most people will stutter, they'll start bending their words, they'll try and compromise their position, in order to "ensure" their hate, and then they start to reduce themselves, at their own expense.
Last edited by Satan; 12-15-2008 at 09:32 AM.
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ENFp - Fi 7w6 sp/sx
The Ineffable IEI
The Einstein ENTp
johari nohari
http://www.mypersonality.info/ssmall/
I've only hated two people recently. Both Betas, one a definite ESTp. You have to be a total jerk. The kind that smacks females 'cause there's nothing else to do. I only hate people who are hated by almost everyone else first.
Kick people when they are down, take advantage of their weaknesses.To make me hate you, I need you to---
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
I dunno. I don't hate anyone. It would take a lot.
To make me dislike you, you could boss me around all the time and go around shoving the rules in everyone's face so that nobody has any fun.
hurt someone I love
force me to clean the bathrooms
IEI-Fe 4w3
force me to do someone else's dishes.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire