Haven't had much time to post but I have an interesting person for you to type, in case anyone's wondering, to a large extent this is me ranting..
I'll try to describe her character the best that I can and will also describe our relationship (take into consideration that I'm a delta NF).
So, I will start by saying that I have never despised a person as much as I do her, I didn't like her from the first conversation. I have a clear direction on her type but I'm not sure on the specifics.
She's the kind of girl that wears (to work) these awfully slutty and eye catching sunglasses, she tries to make an impression that she's above everyone, as if she's superior to all in every way.
Did I mention that she craves attention? I mean, we all do but she does to a sickening extent. She's also a control freak and seems to be a perfectionist on the most trivial things just to make the impression that she's a professional (although after a while it was evident that she's more into making the impression that she's working rather than actually working, it was all about impression for her). She would correct me on how I do things, like how to organize everything and how to staple paper!
She would treat people according to their rank, status, wealth and talked about these subjects with great interest (later on she would deny that that these things really mattered to her but it was painfully obvious that she just wanted to maintain a good image). She loved to make fun of people she deemed as lame, for example, there was this one guy that had his nails painted, was obese and obviously gay and she was real nasty about it (I have to be fair and say that it wasn't merely because he was gay).
She would sometimes be opinionated on "moral" issues but in a bitchy sort of way. She did say that she doesn't expect anyone to follow her moral code on things (she's a vegetarian) but I did sense that she derives some arrogance from her "morality" – I also noticed that this "morality" shifts quite a lot – when someone she wants to impress thinks differently from her she'll conceal her beliefs. When I see her sometimes (we no longer work together, thank god) she seems cold and snotty. It's no secret that there was an overbearing tension and mistrust between us, she would also compete with me for no real reason. I really think our relationship has to do with socionics.
So, any ideas on her type?


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