What type was it with? And why was it so flyyy?
Best Romantic Relationship You Have Had...
What type was it with? And why was it so flyyy?
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Originally Posted by Diana
good point.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Okay. Probably the most ROMANTIC (not necessarily the BEST) relationship I ever had was with another INFp. Back when I was like 16. It was just one of those tragic I-love-you-so-much-but-we-can-never-be-together-forever relationships. Partly because his parents were nazis. But that fact added to the romance. You know, the whole Romeo/Juliet thing. Otherwise, it's my ESE husband (still going on
IEI-Fe 4w3
sick avatar dood.
and good point lols.
uhhhh....best romantic relationship....um...well i guess it was super ego, ENTp...but it turned into a pretty bad one after a year or so. there was on other one that was possibly duality but....uh...that....doesn't.....count as much? >.> /doesn't wanna talk about it
ill get back to you though, might have a good one in the oven. we'll see. seemingly healthier.
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[21:29] hitta: idealism is just the gap between the thought of death
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What type was it with? And why was it so flyyy?
It was with myself. Cuz Im fly and I adore mehslef. =)
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
So, to answer the question...What type was it with? And why was it so flyyy?
My relationship with the first ESI (Fi subtype) seemed absolutely perfect at the time, but I suppose I wasn't ready to settle down. I didn't know what else was out there, and even more so, I needed to learn more about myself and about life. I don't know how things would have worked out if we had stayed together, but I do know that I would have missed a lot of very difficult times through which I learned a lot of invaluable lessons. We never really experienced an adult relationships (since we both lived with our parents), so it's difficult to judge what it would have been like if it had started when we were adults. Judging by what he was like then and what he's like now, I'm not sure he would have pushed me as much as the second ESI does (which is something that I need). I know he would have been a good dad for the same reasons I know the second ESI will be, but he doesn't have the kind of intolerance for disorder, self-discipline, and "get er done" attitude that the second ESI has (which I also definitley need).
My relationship with the second ESI (Se subtype) doesn't have that "first love" charm to it, nor the tumultuous and crazy in-your-face hormones and novelties of a teenage relationship, but he is the most dependable person I've ever known. He's the type of person I always wanted to be with, and we're compatible in a lot of ways that aren't directly related to socionics. He's a bit "harsher" than the first ESI. More strict. I need it though. He's also a lot more dependable about keeping on top of day to day stuff, something that I fall apart without. He's very self-possessed, knowing what he wants (and doesn't want) and why about the kind of stuff I tend to be indecisive about. He's also a lot of fun. We laugh a lot. And he's good at dealing with me when I'm feeling overwhelmed. He's more insistant that I talk about something that's bothering me than the first ESI was (something I need), but then again, I probably didn't require as much prompting when I was a teenager.
Both ESI's are/were extremely loyal, committed, and honest. Both would have been/will be excellent parents. The only thing that he first relationship has over the second is that, being teenagers experiencing our "first love", we spent most of our free time just being together. Making out, playing video games, watching TV, going places together, just holding each other, etc. I think this is more of a reflection of life stage than of the individuals involved though.
The only good I can say about the relationships with the other types was that I learned from them (and the EFxx and I did have a lot of fun too I suppose, laughed a lot).
Last edited by Joy; 11-02-2008 at 10:24 AM.
Well, I can definetly answer which were the worst ones, ha. Probobly LIE. The whole thing was just a disaster. Huge, huge disaster...a year and a half of a disaster. I actually found myself in a good relationship with a LSI at one point which I didn't think would ever be possible but it was very comfortable. Not romantic, but comfortable. We were too much alike though so that didn't really work...felt a bit like dating your brother but we're still friends. I guess that one was the most stable out of all my relationships. I dated a SEE and they're very good partners if all you want out of it is the physical aspect. Blah, I'm on a dating hiatus for a few more months.
weren't you dating an IEI for awhile? How would you rate that one?
IEI-Fe 4w3
He's the only one I ever cared about, yeah...but it was extremely unhealthy....extreeeemly.weren't you dating an IEI for awhile? How would you rate that one?
awww, I'm sorry.
IEI-Fe 4w3
IEI. And we're still together. Two Beta NFs in a relationship together is like.. crazy romance/emotion/intensity. It's almost too muchfor one to handle -- but we both love it! It's made me the happiest, healthiest I've ever been probably in my entire life and I'm in love.
End of story!
<3
IEI.
Good for you! Why settle...
I'll add a couple
longest crush (YEARS): ESI
most innocent and sweetest: SEI
strongest feelings: IEI
liked the least: SEE
easiest to start and leave (because he basically did everything before I even had the chance to fall for him seriously and then it was over due to proximity): SLE
IEI-Fe 4w3
Thanks =)! Why was it bad with the LSI? I love those guys! Well I only know 2...but yeahhh I love 'em!
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