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    Default What are ISTjs and ESTps attracted to?

    So I'd like any info on Beta ST's that would be helpful...What are you guys attracted to? If you're not one I'd like ur opinion especially if you have had experience with one in a relationship.
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    Apparently LSIs can dig mood swings in the EIE. I can't. I can adapt if I have to, but I'd rather not. I live with an EIE, and he's pretty joyful and motivated and forceful most of the time, but when he's in a mood, it's not pleasant to be around. However, I suppose EIEs are less moody than IEIs, simply based on the premise that many IEIs are Fours, and the moodiness of Fours can get on my nerves. (Although I've had little romantic experience concerning Fours, and generally, relationship-wise, I cope well enough with my IEI father).

    What I do love about my EIE friend, and what sometimes makes me think we're duals on many occasions is the way he stirs me up to believe something. It's not so much subservience as "I am in control, but you are an interesting, inspirational guy, so make me believe something; give me direction". He's also fantastic company on nights out. Without him at the table, it's either dead or lacking in Fe+Se.

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    I can tell that ESTp's can't handle my horrible mood swings. I can be very sensitive at times. I got yelled at by an ESTp that I'm close to a couple weeks ago and even though he apologized so many times, I was really upset. When I realized I was overreacting I apologized but he was mad at me the entire day because I ignored his phone calls and texts. He tried to get my attention by doing something that would bother me. The following day we got into another argument but I noticed when I showing my Fe he thought it was sweet. Me and him haven't really spoken that much since then.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onetreehilluver View Post
    I can tell that ESTp's can't handle my horrible mood swings.
    I doubt anyone really can.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex View Post
    I doubt anyone really can.
    lol I agree with you. I've noticed that Beta NF's are the worst when it comes to mood swings.
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    Quote Originally Posted by onetreehilluver View Post
    lol I agree with you. I've noticed that Beta NF's are the worst when it comes to mood swings.
    sounds like fun

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    Quote Originally Posted by onetreehilluver View Post
    lol I agree with you. I've noticed that Beta NF's are the worst when it comes to mood swings.
    Maybe but I know some pretty darned moody SEIs. They just don't express their mood outwardly. (but neither do I)
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