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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    Exactly. This is the best advice so far.

    SLEs are just invisible to you, you probably all sit next to one in your class/at work.
    AUUUGGGGHHH!! how frustrating! So how is this supposed to work?

    BTW my work now consists of a group of 5 women and 2 married older males. :frown: Not looking good. . .
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    AUUUGGGGHHH!! how frustrating! So how is this supposed to work?

    BTW my work now consists of a group of 5 women and 2 married older males. :frown: Not looking good. . .
    meeting people at work is never a good idea anyway. but if you really want to, you should get a new job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    AUUUGGGGHHH!! how frustrating! So how is this supposed to work?

    BTW my work now consists of a group of 5 women and 2 married older males. :frown: Not looking good. . .
    Go to a bar or club or party. That's where I met my exes. Anything social. Get stuck in. It should be easy for a woman, especially an IEI. Just stand there looking sultry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Go to a bar or club or party. That's where I met my exes. Anything social. Get stuck in. It should be easy for a woman, especially an IEI. Just stand there looking sultry.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    Go to a bar or club or party. That's where I met my exes. Anything social. Get stuck in. It should be easy for a woman, especially an IEI. Just stand there looking sultry.
    i'm scared. . .

    j/k. . .sounds easy enough. . .I just have to actually GO. I'm a little hesitant to go by myself though. . .especially to a bar or club.

    And i dont know enough people around here yet to get invited to parties. . .the people I know dont have Se-filled parties. :frown:
    I am SORELY missing some good Se.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    i'm scared. . .

    j/k. . .sounds easy enough. . .I just have to actually GO. I'm a little hesitant to go by myself though. . .especially to a bar or club.

    And i dont know enough people around here yet to get invited to parties. . .the people I know dont have Se-filled parties. :frown:
    I am SORELY missing some good Se.
    No don't go by yourself. Take a friend. A winglady. Obviously the idea of a winglady isn't to make you look good and so you don't look like a weirdo/perv etc (which is the job of a wingman for a guy on the pull) but to ensure you don't choose the wrong guy.

    And don't think that just because a party isn't wild you're not gonna meet an SLE there.

    Moreover, remember that the more events you go to, the more you get stuck into, the more your chances of finding an SLE will increase. When I say "get stuck into" I mean you just need to make an appearance, you don't need to actually do anything. If you are even half fit you will get someone instantly. Honestly, worry not in the slightest.

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    Ezra, that was very sweet and encouraging.
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    maybe a boxing school is a place where a bigger percentage then average is SLE ?

    mike tyson SLE, mohammed ali Se leading, personally I know 1 person who's a boxer and he's SLE too.

    Maybe also, bouncers and security guards are often (more than average) SLE ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarno View Post
    maybe a boxing school is a place where a bigger percentage then average is SLE ?

    mike tyson SLE, mohammed ali Se leading, personally I know 1 person who's a boxer and he's SLE too.

    Maybe also, bouncers and security guards are often (more than average) SLE ?
    Are you trying to get her gang raped

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ezra View Post
    No don't go by yourself. Take a friend. A winglady. Obviously the idea of a winglady isn't to make you look good and so you don't look like a weirdo/perv etc (which is the job of a wingman for a guy on the pull) but to ensure you don't choose the wrong guy.

    And don't think that just because a party isn't wild you're not gonna meet an SLE there.

    Moreover, remember that the more events you go to, the more you get stuck into, the more your chances of finding an SLE will increase. When I say "get stuck into" I mean you just need to make an appearance, you don't need to actually do anything. If you are even half fit you will get someone instantly. Honestly, worry not in the slightest.
    Yeah thanks Ezra! That is very encouraging!
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