Common hobbies? What do they get up to? Where can I find me some ESTps? !
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Common hobbies? What do they get up to? Where can I find me some ESTps? !
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Just to give some examples...The ESTP's that I know, do or have done this:
dj
squash
fitness
soccer coach
soccer
diving
visit every big festival in town especially when the main purpose is drinking beer :-)
tennis
motorcycling
soccer (as has already been stated)
probably other sports as well (I knew an SLE who was into kick-boxing)
financial management
fraternities
drinking, yes
parties, yes
karaoke, maybe
IEI-Fe 4w3
You will find SLEs:
dj
record producer
singer
clerk
squash
in the office
fitness
fighting
musician
soccer coach
ceo
soccer
studying at their desk
diving
army
collecting stamps
fucking hookers
library
collecting toy soldiers
visit every big festival in town especially when the main purpose is drinking beer :-)
hitting on young girls
tennis
shitting on someone's lawn
taking drugs
motorcycling
bars
navy
probably other sports as well
smashing someone's car in
financial management
clubs
fraternities
travelling
drinking
air force
bullying younger kids
parties
karaoke
knitting
on this forum
Moral of the story is, you'll find SLEs in all walks of life. They're not all good, nor all bad.
However, many SLEs are more commonly drawn to certain activities in order to (stereotypically*) satisfy their Se. You should find a fair few Beta STs in the military, in training corps (or whatever it is you have in the US - ROTC?) etcetera. This provides an outlet for their Se - discipline, active lifestyles, wine, woman and song - and for their Ti - strict hierarchy and a strong ideology. In line with the stereotype, you're likely to find a large percentage of SLEs out on the field, playing football (saaker), rugby (American football in your case) and hockey, or on a court, playing tennis or basketball. Again, this is to satisfy the "get the ball rolling" (no pun intended) aspect of Se. One which may be less stereotypical but still the epitome of SLE is in high positions in the corporate world; I'm talking about chief execs (the guys who are not actually fucked by back-room dealers, but who run the show from the outset), back-room dealers themselves and power/stock brokers. These certainly provide an outlet for an SLE's Se; in fact, it's like paradise - getting people to do what you want them to do, and doing this well.
*I say stereotypical because not all SLEs are ADHD kids. I get tired of the "come on let's do stuff" aspect of OTC. I just want to go home, grab a shower, wrap myself in a throw, and indulge in creature comforts.
yeah, the SLE I know is a senior vice president for a large financial firm. he's the one who brings in the clients, seals the deal. he travels all around visiting clients and bringing in the money. his partner deals with the other aspects of the business but the SLE is the best with people and getting out there to bring in the business.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Ok, now that I had to leave my dual behind :frown: I must go SLE hunting before my heart breaks to small pieces.
Where are the best places to find SLEs? The places that immediately come to my mind are sporting events, sports bars, bars in general (is this accurate?). Any other places, maybe not so obvious to me?
Well I would say that the best place to start would be getting out of the house. As far as a specific place goes I'm not really sure, any place were people are doing active things?
Personally you could find me at theater events, theater workshops, library, maybe at the gym if I'm bored. Basically though the thing that you need to look for is the loudest person in the room. Or the most obnoxious, or something along those lines. And places that are really competitive, I greatly enjoy competition of any kind.
Easy Day
This is my life. If I didn't get lonely, I would probably spend all my time in my dorm room and the library. But luckily, I do get lonely, so I have to actually go out into the world and deal with people to find some that I like enough to hang out with who will also hang out with me.
I also vote for basketball courts, but pretty much anything that's "out there" accomplishing things is good. I mean, yes, SLEs do tend to be fairly physically active, but I think they just tend to be pushing hard towards their goals in whatever field they're interested in, and there are as many interests as there are SLEs. I know probable SLEs (I still don't trust my typing skills 100%) that are into acting, directing, philosophy, golf, classical languages... pretty much everything.
So, my suggestion is, besides joining your local gym and visiting often, to find a hobby that really interests you (especially something with a lot of obvious Ni/Fe, because I think SLEs can be drawn to stuff like that), and pursuing that wholeheartedly. You might meet some SLEs along the way!
Not a rule, just a trend.
IEI. Probably Fe subtype. Pretty sure I'm E4, sexual instinctual type, fairly confident that I'm a 3 wing now, so: IEI-Fe E4w3 sx/so. Considering 3w4 now, but pretty sure that 4 fits the best.
Yes 'a ma'am that's pretty music...
I am grateful for the mystery of the soul, because without it, there could be no contemplation, except of the mysteries of divinity, which are far more dangerous to get wrong.
what would be activities with a lot of Ni/Fe? Like for example?
Reading poetry or singing at an open mic night. Standing on a corner, either selling weed or preaching the gospel. Discussing existential philosophy or psychology.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
Yeah, theater is another good one. Any kind of performing art can have an Fe/Ni bent.
But, for a certainty, back then,
We loved so many, yet hated so much,
We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...
Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
Whilst our laughter echoed,
Under cerulean skies...
I'm surprised nobody said it yet: gay bar.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
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~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
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i dunno. I bet they don't care.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Pay special attention to loiterers, ruffians, death metal garage bands, and prisons.
The end is nigh
...and the occasional coffee shop.
IEI-Fe 4w3
ahahahaha A lady who works in the coffee shop right down the street is SLE. I thought about this thread this morning while I was getting some breakfast.
But she also looks like she spends a *lot* of time in the gym.
IEE
bump.
i need some more ideas.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
past 3 weeks of my schedule:
theatres and movies
various pubs & clubs - drinking and dancing like crazy and just having fun with friends
snowboarding - i adore extreme
jumping on trampolines (just 2 weeks ago as i was trying to do a backflip i managed to kick myself in the face with my knee. nosebleed and a totally swollen difigured face for a week)
filming for a movie project
chillin with my girlfriends
at work
at univerity
at home (but that's just to eat and sleep)
EST
it did suck
and they were probably like: "OMG .. poor girl .... what happened to her face!?!?"
but i never worry about what other people might think i coudn't care less.
and by now it's totally healed.
EST
You can meet an SLE ANYWHERE.
Same places you'd meet any other potential mate.
thanks for the tip, herzy
gonna build up some courage and try again some time
EST
i'm scared. . .
j/k. . .sounds easy enough. . .I just have to actually GO. I'm a little hesitant to go by myself though. . .especially to a bar or club.
And i dont know enough people around here yet to get invited to parties. . .the people I know dont have Se-filled parties. :frown:
I am SORELY missing some good Se.
Enneagram: 9w1 6w5 2w3 so/sx
No don't go by yourself. Take a friend. A winglady. Obviously the idea of a winglady isn't to make you look good and so you don't look like a weirdo/perv etc (which is the job of a wingman for a guy on the pull) but to ensure you don't choose the wrong guy.
And don't think that just because a party isn't wild you're not gonna meet an SLE there.
Moreover, remember that the more events you go to, the more you get stuck into, the more your chances of finding an SLE will increase. When I say "get stuck into" I mean you just need to make an appearance, you don't need to actually do anything. If you are even half fit you will get someone instantly. Honestly, worry not in the slightest.
Ezra, that was very sweet and encouraging.
IEI-Fe 4w3
maybe a boxing school is a place where a bigger percentage then average is SLE ?
mike tyson SLE, mohammed ali Se leading, personally I know 1 person who's a boxer and he's SLE too.
Maybe also, bouncers and security guards are often (more than average) SLE ?