ESTps, do you relate to this short play?

[Arcanum]

estps, I come in peace... tell me if you relate to this short play I wrote. I want to see if I somehow understand your ways.

two strangers are talking to each other.
1#: Man, this place is fuckin' awesome, look at them fine bitches.
2#: Yeah man...
1#: My name is ----, what's yours?
2#: ----, but the bitches call me daddy.
1#: (laughs)
2#: I gotta take a leak (goes over to a statue and pees on it)
1#: (laughs and does it too saying "whooohoooo" )
2#: (accidentially pees on #1)
1#: Hey man, wtf are you doing?
2#: (angrily) it was an accident retard
1#: What the fuck is your problem?
2#: that you're a fuckin' ******
(#1 pushes #2, and viceversa)
1#: I'm gonna kick yo' ass you piece of shit
(start to fight and people separate them)
2#: Next time I see you yur dead man, I'm gonna fuckin' kill you!
1#: Find me @ yo mama's bitch!

continue fighting and almost die...

THE END

[Arcanum]

that was me

[Arcanum]

I can relate to the first part, but there's no fucking way that I'd pee in public, let alone with another person right next to me.

Sounds more like teenage angsty hormones to me.

haha, for guys it's not that big of deal, it's the same as in the bathrooms (don't know if you've been inside one). Maybe I should've added that they were drunk...

Another thing, how exactly can someone hit you at your PoLR? Like what things would make you uncomfortable if someone did? You don't have to answer if I'm doing it right now :wink:

[Arcanum]

Now I see...This is interesting. What would get "through to you" if someone doesn't agree with what you are doing, instead of hitting at your PoLR?

[Arcanum]

Thanks Herzblut. Now I have an understanding of why infjs and estps conflict. I know that there is a definition of a conflicting relationship on the website, but now I actually get it. It's very easy for us to hit each other's PoLR without ever knowing how we're doing it because in "real life" this type of discussion of PoLRs never takes place. Misunderstandings...

I am sure that there is a way to find an equilibrium in conflicting relationships, but it takes a lot of energy and sacrifice. Maybe the only way to achieve complete open mindedness to the world is to understand your conflicting type.

Btw, I'm not lecturing right now, it's just how I like to talk. Maybe this won't sound as bad: "who the fuck cares about all this bullshit?" :wink: