How to convey no interest to SLE/ESTp?

[Ali]

umm, how do I let an estp know that I'm not interested in her ? because there is lot of an underlying pressure, and well honestly its very powerful. I've hinted about it but really its still there - advice? It'll be difficult to keep saying no..how do I make them back off gently..

[JuJu]

Have sex with her once.

[Creepy-Cyclops]

Have sex with her once.

Problem with me is that they always come back for more.

[Ali]

riight.

..?

[strrrng]

umm, how do I let an estp know that I'm not interested in her ? because there is lot of an underlying pressure, and well honestly its very powerful. I've hinted about it but really its still there - advice? It'll be difficult to keep saying no..how do I make them back off gently..

Just tell her directly. She'll respect that.

[redbaron]

Just tell her directly. She'll respect that.

yes, I agree. And it keeps things from getting more and more awkward.

[Ezra]

I thought Allie made this thread. I was going to say "just say 'I'm not a lesbian'".

Then I realised the slight discrepancy on the name.

[Satan]

get a restraining order

[Ezra]

Lesbians are never into me for some reason.

Gaydar. They know you're not lesbian.

[dbmmama]

Just tell her directly. She'll respect that.

the only way.