Hi
I just came to the haunting realization that every close friend I have ever had has been from my own quadra.
Can anyone else relate or do you have close friends from other quadras too.
Hi
I just came to the haunting realization that every close friend I have ever had has been from my own quadra.
Can anyone else relate or do you have close friends from other quadras too.
Uhm. Yes, perhaps one. Not usual, though.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Of my 3 closet friends, 2 are Gamma (SEE and ILI). Closest, but not necessarily understanding me the best, or the most compatible in terms of personality. But other things are also important in a friendship and what's most important here is that we share a 'history' together.
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3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
My two best friends are ESTj and ESFp.
What the hell is wrong with me then if I can't make friends form other qaudras.
I have not typed them wrong they have taken tests and agreed with the profile infomation they have read about themselves.
I have one close friend Infp but she is my mothers friend and I have known her all my life. She is my like a member of the family now and her husband I also get along with.
But you can't count them they are my mothers friends.
You're Alpha, right?
Maybe you live in a weird Alpha enclave. Maybe you have exceptionally low tolerance for differences amongst people with whom you associate yourself.
I don't know, but I would be inclined to say that it would be exception, rather than the rule, that someone has ONLY close friends of their quadra. It would also, however, turn on how 'close friends' is defined and how many close friends you have, I guess.
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3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
A close friend to me is one that I want to spend time with that doesn't seem one sided. I can tell when people don't like me or they like me less then they let on.
I exceptionally high tolerance for differences amongst people when I get screwed over by people from other quadras that's a different story.
The Enfp that a can't seem to get any further with If I said nothing a tumbleweed would roll across the room.
The Enfj that acts like a queer because he think it's funny and decides to play spotlight and 11 pm at night near a place that has been robbed and the police a still investigating. The he talks about how weird I am behind my back.
They are the only one I have typed so far the are many more trust me.
It's true I scare people away. When they are my parents friends they can't run away, especially when my ESE father the his world famous cappuccino and tells them them the stories with lots salsa and FE spatters all over the room getting inside the locks in the doors and jamming them so they can't leave.
Last edited by confused84; 09-15-2008 at 06:30 AM.