Have you ever, for any reason, acted like your conflictor's dual?
Currently, I'm in a course with a ISTj--who is famous and influential in journalism--and I don't wanna f* it up by 'conflicting' ... In the classes, (only three so far,) I've consciously acted like a ENFj--currently, I am one of his favorite students lol... It takes tremendous effort to act this way--I feel like a total asshole doing it--and I'm going to stop b/c my conscience tells me it's wrong.
The reason I'm posting is b/c I'm wondering if anyone else has had experiences like this..? I.e. where it's been in your best interest to have a positive relationship with your conflictor? How did you handle it..?



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during casual conversations and trying to be more
, and understanding more where they come from when they do small talk. I have been sharing an office with a SEI for some 2 months now and we get along fine on a daily basis.
reason), and react angrily by relying, ultimately, on
force as in "I am the boss here". That forces me to spend time in using tactics to avoid that problem, which are a waste of time.
, LIE, ENTj logical subtype, 8w9 sx/sp
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