I've never been called boring. I have been called a lot of other negative things: hysterical, melodramatic, high strung, pretentious, neurotic, hyperactive, interesting, scary, hilarious, memorable etc., but boring? No.
I've never been called boring. I have been called a lot of other negative things: hysterical, melodramatic, high strung, pretentious, neurotic, hyperactive, interesting, scary, hilarious, memorable etc., but boring? No.
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3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
I can be very boring.
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
My dad's hobbies include:
- Sports - playing and watching (His health no longer allows him to play but he was a really good baseball player. He watches mainly baseball and college football.) He used to golf too but his health no longer allows him to do that.
- He's a huge history buff and in fact was a history teacher. He reads books about history all the time. He's also interested in current events but mainly in how they tie into historical trends. He loves to argue about this kind of thing.
- Crossword puzzles. That's where I got my interest in them - we used to do them together when I was a kid.
- Hanging out with people. It really is like a hobby for him because he can not sit still in one place and HAS to get out, so he has several places he can go where he knows he'll run into friends, and he drives around from place to place every day.
- He plays solitaire a lot. Like with cards. I've never known anyone to play it as much as he does. He has issues with depression and that's one way you can tell he's having trouble - he'll just sit and play solitaire for hours on end. But when he's OK he likes to play and chat with people at the same time.
It ain't what you don't know that gets you into trouble. It's what you know for sure that just ain't so.-Mark Twain
You can't wake a person who is pretending to be asleep.
I got called all those and boring.
ENFj Ni subtype 3w4
"And once you lose your way you have two choices. Find the person you used to be or lose that person completely"
formerly onetreehilluver
Oh, come on now! How the hell can an Enneagram 4 be boring?Originally Posted by onetreehilluver
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
When preoccupied with seeking affirmation of their uniqueness and validation for their individual self-identity. After all, the seeking for a rescuer is part and parcel of their chronic low self-esteem and tendencies to portray themselves in a negative light. It is from this negativity that the rescuer is meant to save them from by affirming 'Yes, you are special. Now, shut up, buttercup.'
3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
How is that boring?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
We are NOT fighting like angry animals. And I wish you (and anyone else who wants to get on board) wouldn't bring this issue up anymore -- it's like poking a pustule. If you keep poking it, it's more likely to burst. The only way it goes away is to leave it alone.
Look, I'll even put in a smiley to show that I'm not angry [], but I really don't think rehashing this is a good idea -- least of all if you know what EIEs are like and how they react to things.
3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
but you have to admit that his avatar matches with your avatar?We are NOT fighting like angry animals. And I wish you (and anyone else who wants to get on board) wouldn't bring this issue up anymore -- it's like poking a pustule. If you keep poking it, it's more likely to burst. The only way it goes away is to leave it alone.
Look, I'll even put in a smiley to show that I'm not angry [
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
Dude, my avatar (Sun Shangxiang) was the bride of Liu Bei -- I can't say it was necessarily a blissful marriage, but to suggest anything more between my avatar and another would be slander.
What do you think -- LSI looking?
3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
He looks like a more handsome version of banana pancakes, in that case, he is ILE, but he also looks like he can be idolatire's avatar's sibling or something, there is a bitch please look in both of them.
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
I asked my Se-LSI father who his favourite character from Romance of the Three Kingdoms was (on the premise that people like their identicals the most) and he said: Zhao Yun.
So I looked his portrait up and god, he's HOT.
He better be LSI.
3w4-1w2-5w4 sx/sp
Haha, I'd take this one as my sibling anyday.I asked my Se-LSI father who his favourite character from Romance of the Three Kingdoms was (on the premise that people like their identicals the most) and he said: Zhao Yun.
So I looked his portrait up and god, he's HOT.
He better be LSI.
allez cuisine!
Wow, I need to take a deep breath... numbers, you're unbelievable.
Last edited by Park; 04-04-2009 at 04:03 AM.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I CONCUR.
What I really can't seem to understand is, WHAT IS THERE TO BURST?And what exactly is 'this issue'? I seem to be getting oblivious...
(In regards to what I said in the other thread,) It was honestly not my intention to aggravate you in the least, and I truly feel sorry that it happened. You managed to successfully 'return the favor' though, but screw my feelings. At this point, I I'd feel much better if I knew you weren't upset or mad at me.
Last edited by Park; 04-04-2009 at 04:16 AM.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Hey winterpark, I think it would just be best if this moment of inability to properly understand each other by you and unefille was just left here and everyone moves on past it. I think that some observers are seeing the inability to communicate as a bigger deal than it is, and bring up old threads seems rather unnecessary. So how about we just draw a line under it now and say this is finished.I CONCUR.
What I really can't seem to understand is, WHAT IS THERE TO BURST?
(In regards to what I said in the other thread,) It was honestly not my intention to aggravate you in the least, and I truly feel sorry that it happened. You managed to successfully 'return the favor' though, but screw my feelings. At this point, I I'd feel much better if I knew you weren't upset or mad at me.
allez cuisine!
Ok, thanks for sharing your opinion.
Amen to that.
I'd probably agree, but knowing numbers' intention I can't (and will not) protest. I have nothing against his aversion of conflict and humanitarian benevolence (if I might call it that), but find them rather admirable. So on the account of that, it's fine.
I'd be fine with that, despite the fact that it'll leave me with some unanswered questions.
And btw, I feel like talking to a negotiator... I 'll need to hear this from her in order for it to actually mean anything.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
OK guys, I am really sorry about bumping this thing. I did it because I was checking the who is online viewing which thread, then stomping upon that, and clicking on it. Then i read the post between unefille and winterpark... hey guys I know I might sound insensitive for stating this, but we should relax, this is a forum, lets take it lightly. I know that we all did invest in alot of heart and brain power and form alot of friends along the way in this forum. But I am really sorry if both of you find it really irrirating for me bumping this thread. as the arguing like little animal, shrug, I just wasn't thinking, regard saying that big time.
(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
Lol, yeah, you kind of are. Yes, you can certainly characterise my response as me just sharing my opinion, but the reason I'm replying rather than unefille is that she doesn't want to be involved in this discussion anymore. The part where I said you guys could just leave it be from now on was putting what she said earlier in this same thread into different words (which you replied to already). I'm not saying anything here that she is unaware of, I obviously am in contact with her and have heard how she feels about this.
Maybe you think she's making a big deal out of things here (I suggest this as a hypothetical, not as implying you actually think this - and omg, this necessity for disclaimers is getting crazy!), but I'm speaking for her right now because that's what she's comfortable with in this context. So I'm asking you to please just let her have her space.
allez cuisine!
It's fine, don't worry about it.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Perhaps I should hire my own agent to continue this discussion for me...
Yes, of course. It's what's comfortable for 'her' that works for 'everyone', naturally. And sorry for forgetting that how she feels is all that matters. The rest of us have no feelings.
And what is it that I am doing to invade her space or not letting her have it?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Gilly, in all seriousness, why are you being such an annoying prick putting your nose in matters that do not concern you in any way? And don't you have a better fucking job than psychoanalyzing my posts?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
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