i didn't read those links, but i realized that too when i reread it.
one "thing" i have that i don't believe the descriptions of 2s say is that i respect other people's way of being.
for instance, wp hates bubbly over the top trying to get him enthusiasticness. i would very intuitively pick up on that the INSTANT i met him and would respect that he wouldn't like that and so i wouldn't do that with him. i observe and then respond with what i feel is appropriate to that person's energy and needs and desires within them.
my "idea" of a 2 was always kind of a person who doesn't recognize that in others and is just bubbly and pushy without paying attention to what is really going on with the other in regards to their behavior toward them.
this, again, is what i do: i observe and then respond with what i feel is appropriate to that person's energy and needs and desires within them.