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    Default Way to get to know your superego and conflictor

    I recommend spending a lot of time with your lookalike. I think it introduces your polr in a way that is more acceptable to you. For example, if you are an INTj and spend a lot of time with an INFj, you will see the places where they are using your creative function that you would not do. In this way you can sort of simulate repressing your creative function as your superego and conflictor would do. By the way, I think interacting with your comparative type isn't as effective because you have the same program function (duh) but this means that you are not experiencing the repressing act yourself. People often learn more by experience.

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    Interesting stuff there, mske.
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    today I am hitta.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Kensington View Post
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    This may or may not disappoint crazedrat's machinations.
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    I think it's really rather simple, and does not require any knowledge onn the basis of Socionics.

    Understand that this person is as he or she is, regardless of how you may perceive them. Make a resolution to accept this, and take care of your own. Be of the mindset that it is not up to you to impose judgments of any kind, and take responsibility for your own attitude. If they do not reciprocate, just take care of yourself, and refrain from perpetuating the situation with a counterattack.

    Basic rules of human conduct.
    And this, too, shall pass away.


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    Quote Originally Posted by FlameReborn View Post
    I think it's really rather simple, and does not require any knowledge onn the basis of Socionics.

    Understand that this person is as he or she is, regardless of how you may perceive them. Make a resolution to accept this, and take care of your own. Be of the mindset that it is not up to you to impose judgments of any kind, and take responsibility for your own attitude. If they do not reciprocate, just take care of yourself, and refrain from perpetuating the situation with a counterattack.

    Basic rules of human conduct.

    yes that is pretty simple. but it is addressing understanding them? I meant "get to know" as "partially understand". Perhaps it's not possible. But it's a different subject than respecting differences in your fellow human.

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    Hmm... Good point.

    I think though that establishing a nonjudgmental mindset forms the base by which understanding may take place. I believe a lot of things that relate to this toppic,, which are perhaps too complex, and I will not go into detail unless prompted. But it is easy for me... to know people. And when I am in a certain place in me, it is not only easy to know them, but also to find the good in them. After all, they are really a reflection of some part of me.
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