Nigh, when some dual shows up and makes their own rules about the relationship and it's not typical of Socionics roles, dump them. That is an individual who doesn't get it; that is an unhealthy individual that you do not want to be around.
Being selfish is a coping mechanism for being alone; the reality is not every dual is like this and not every dual had to learn to be mean and manipulative to cope and when removed from harsh environments, these ass hole duals can't learn to readjust because they lack the resolve the intelligence all the while attaching some special meaning to words that aren't even apart of the Socion and because of this they don't fit the mold anyway neither can they figure out why they can't.
Let's assume a healthy LSE someone like my friend from college, for instance. I gave him a description of the types and he picked his from reading the short descriptions in one go. He is married to an SLI (and of course the relationship lacks passion as it's clearly described in relations between them and he gathered that info -sadly) however he knows himself and his role. It's not that hard for a person to figure it out.
No one needs to be around anyone who justifies their own bad behavior and rationalizes it away associating it to qualities or traits of some type that doen't even exist in the first place.



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