
Originally Posted by
darya
Enneagram "theory" says that 3's and 7's are the best match (also 3 + 9 and 3 + 5), specifically 3w4 and 7w6 and I have noticed there is lots of truth to that. 7's have lots of expectations and need constant stimulation, and 3's are good at shaping themselves so the other one is happy and in return admires them. 7's fleeting attention is a challenge for a 3. Enneagram dual pairs don't correspond to socionics dualities in most cases - E3 and E6 are said to be a bad match for example, which also makes sense from the way these types look at the world and people.