Edit: Some examples wouldn't hurt![]()
Edit: Some examples wouldn't hurt![]()
Last edited by thePirate; 07-27-2008 at 07:08 PM.
<Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" isand not
With one leg up?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Originally Posted by Gilly
With subtlety.
INFj
9w1 sp/sx
Apparently with so much subtletly sometimes I think you guys are running away!
Last edited by xyz; 07-27-2008 at 07:23 PM.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
For me, I just try to achieve a subtle sophistication in my flirting. I don't like doing the in-your-face kind of stuff.
If it seems like I'm just running away, it's because I'm trying to find the right moment and execute it with class and sophistication.
INFj
9w1 sp/sx
yeah i think true ENFp flirting is hard to spot. I think in general they can be pretty complimentary and flirty. I think only after they have gotten to know you a while one of the compliments seems different, or gasp, there is some silence. That's what I take to be ENFp signs of affection.
YES.
I also think it becomes even more difficult for us to flirt once we discover we really like someone. At that point I become more self-conscious about things. I can even go into shut down mode and become rather shy around this person.
This has happened to me also. There definitely have been guys that have confused my friendliness and niceness for something else, I guess not realizing that this is just how I am with everyone. A better indication that I like someone in that way, as I said before, is if I seem "less" open. If my feelings are involved, at the beginning, I have a hard time taking things so lightly and my mind starts doing all sorts of weird things. This happens during the first stages, while I'm still unsure if the feelings are reciprocated. Eventually, once I feel comfortable again, I'll go back to being my usual self.