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    Default IEEs-ENFps how do you flirt?



    Edit: Some examples wouldn't hurt
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    With one leg up?
    “Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly
    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    With subtlety.
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    Apparently with so much subtletly sometimes I think you guys are running away!
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    For me, I just try to achieve a subtle sophistication in my flirting. I don't like doing the in-your-face kind of stuff.

    If it seems like I'm just running away, it's because I'm trying to find the right moment and execute it with class and sophistication.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tereg View Post
    For me, I just try to achieve a subtle sophistication in my flirting. I don't like doing the in-your-face kind of stuff.

    If it seems like I'm just running away, it's because I'm trying to find the right moment and execute it with class and sophistication.
    yeah i think true ENFp flirting is hard to spot. I think in general they can be pretty complimentary and flirty. I think only after they have gotten to know you a while one of the compliments seems different, or gasp, there is some silence. That's what I take to be ENFp signs of affection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tereg View Post
    With subtlety.
    Quote Originally Posted by LokiVanguard View Post
    Apparently with so much subtletly sometimes I think you guys are running away!
    Quote Originally Posted by tereg View Post
    For me, I just try to achieve a subtle sophistication in my flirting. I don't like doing the in-your-face kind of stuff.
    YES.

    I also think it becomes even more difficult for us to flirt once we discover we really like someone. At that point I become more self-conscious about things. I can even go into shut down mode and become rather shy around this person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winterpark View Post
    With one leg up?
    with 7 up! the more friends the better
    ENTP:wink:ALPHA

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mimosa Pudica View Post
    Flirt? I don't think I know how to flirt.

    After thinking about this for quite a while now, I've come to the conclusion that some men mistake my friendliness for flirting, and when you talk with someone in a polite and open manner, some people (men) might think you want something more that conversation. I think men are strange...
    This has happened to me also. There definitely have been guys that have confused my friendliness and niceness for something else, I guess not realizing that this is just how I am with everyone. A better indication that I like someone in that way, as I said before, is if I seem "less" open. If my feelings are involved, at the beginning, I have a hard time taking things so lightly and my mind starts doing all sorts of weird things. This happens during the first stages, while I'm still unsure if the feelings are reciprocated. Eventually, once I feel comfortable again, I'll go back to being my usual self.

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