Aww. Nice post BurntOrange. =] <3 ILEs and how considerate some of them can really be. How old are you btw? I totally agree with everything you said in that "long" post (not long to me! enjoyable to read!) ... especially about NEVER SETTLING FOR LESS. You'll regret so much, I should know, I have a ton of experience with settling for less.
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ILE - Ti.
TY. I might not be much of an upstanding citizen, but I do try my best to be considerate to people in general whenever it's possible. I'm college age BTW. I guess maybe I should've said "we're too young..." if that was confusing haha
That we are!! PAAARRTTYYYY! I'm 23 FYI
*warning this post may be influenced by the fact that it's 4.30pm on a Friday arvo here, sweet delicious freedom!! ^_^
Hello, my name is Bee. Pleased to meet you .
I would advise you not to break up for a crush, but you should also not stay with someone out of convenience or because you feel you owe it to them. Maybe liking the new guy has to do not just with the fact that you like him and he is your dual but that the EIE isn't quite right for you, and that doesn't directly have anything to do with the ILE.
EII 4w5
so/sx (?)
bunnies are so cuteOriginally Posted by diljs
ILE/SEI Relationship advice...
EII 4w5
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Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves.
John Muir
Sounds like you're not really into your boyfriend, if this is an issue. Follow your bliss!
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.” --- Pippi Longstocking
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dual relationships are meant to be comfortable, however this does not take into factor of the following which is much more important in terms of relationship compatibility.
Relationship Compatibility:
1. Similar backgrounds
2. Complementary physical appearance of the two
3. Similar outlook in life
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Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves.
John Muir
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both sensing, lol. i know another such couple and i pity them. they're like "running" in a closed circuit.
actually it is important if you just spend your time or you work on life together. if serious, i recommend you to make the move, there are ILEs everywhere.
Climb the mountains and get their good tidings. Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness into you, and the storms their energy, while cares will drop off like autumn leaves.
John Muir
Would rather a more difficult relationship ?
Anyone who say that duality is boring isn't really giving it a chance.
you need to find another Entp and try again.
My cousin is my dual and my best friend I have more fun hanging around with him than anyone else.
Wait things are supposed to be difficult? Aye man. Yeah sometimes. Life has its share of challenges but above all else, you make some good choices and life is pretty fun and cool actually.
Just keep swimming and keep your head in the game. =) The hardest thing in this world, is to live in it. Be brave. Live. For me.
Also if life turns to shit, do I want a equal partner or somebody that won't understand me and fuck me over? There's already enough people that are opposite/anti-me out in the world, if I'm in a relationship we're going to be more equal. Duh.
I almost got killed because I thought like you. I'm serious. ??? Your ideas need to be challenged there buddy.
Yeah I'm going to make life more stressful for myself and court somebody that I wouldn't stand a chance against just to make it more challenging. I'm gonna pick up some roughneck biker dude that killed a few people before. Tee hee, opposites attract. Even though I can't stand his smell and he's scaring me a little. And I'm not really sexually attracted to him either, and his armpit smell is really starting to bother me. But this is what I need! He's the yang to my yin. Without him, I supposedly wouldn't exist (even though I was doing just fine before.)
Nope. Sameness all the way!!!
(this doesn't mean I want a clone of me btw. If I'm striving for a relationship, I'd automatically accept differences. But still, come on now. You have to be with somebody that fucking understands you.)
I actually have the balls to challenge my ideas, and fight The First Evil. Do you?
And okay maybe I do want a clone. Because I and I alone have brought me to my greatest orgasm. So how do you explain that??? Ooh yes safety and comfort in a naturally harsh world is such a big bad thing. Are you spoiled or something?
Well that's not totally true. I actually had the greatest orgasm having cyber sex, as weird as that is... so technically another person was involved. (I've had my share of real life experiences too so don't get me started on that 'you're just a nerd' speech.) But yeah man he was so different than me! He like, didn't totally share all my interests. (Only he did.)
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I met my dual today
She laughed at my jokes but she was kinda ugly, she hit me sometimes and then kissed me on the cheek and left
yaay...
I guess they come in all sizes, forms, countries and intellects
I will not aim for the head.
hit it, hit it hard.
it might be the last chance you get.
D-SEI9w1
This is me and my dual being scientific together
You met your dual almost on a daily basis, it's just that you don't notice.
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You know what? You're an individual, and that makes people nervous. And it's gonna keep making people nervous for the rest of your life. - Ole Golly from Harriet, the spy.
lol.
Yay.
But this is a pathetic post, I want details and depth, please!
she hit you and kissed you on the cheek?She likes you for sure.
that's hilarious.
IEI-Fe 4w3
This is, of course, a past issue, but I'm going to address for others and for your future. I honestly don't think that it's wise to break up with someone based on what a personality system says. You have to weigh the situation based on how unsatisfying your current relationship is, and how much you have gotten along with other people over the long run who seem similar to the prospective candidate (long-term, similar people are important because initial rapport can be misleading). Also, there are no guarantees. Finally, I have never been in a relationship, so take my advice with a grain of salt.
Jason
So this person you are attracted to is your dual. Who cares that they are? FTW, it's probably not socionics duality which is drawing you to them. I suspect it's a matter of seeing your alter ego in their ego.
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