Okay. You're wrong because nobody is realistically going to just sit there and listen to your tantrums directed at them, because you'd make them feel like a punk with no balls. Besides, you recognize that you clearly are being wrong, so why ask why? Can't you sort it out yourself for awhile and come back a bit later? Dolphin is right, this has to be based upon all the idiosyncrasies of the real world or it fails. It's hard to ignore that drama stuff. They're either gonna snap back, run completely away from you, or be kind of under tone-ily bitchy like Diana is with you. Your behavior leaves other people with those 3 options and those 3 options only, period. You're wrong because you are overly idealizing humans and expecting them to behave in a way where you are the one that gets to control our own choices. Basic
empathy man. You are wrong because you can't choose how other people respond to you, which is what you're coming across like. Your good
gives you a great sense of persuasion but we still make our own choices. We already know you care deeply about humanity in the general sense using your
, so you are simply hurting your own vision here.
It makes other people excited to point out logical flaws in others. Try to see things from their perspective, rationally speaking. If you want other people to help you then you have to have empathy for other people as well. (a strong and direct Fi statement which you wouldn't swallow all too well, but in real life my judgments of you would be more subtle than this.)
Like I said before I'd just leave you alone when you get so out there, then I'd distance myself away from you until you calm down (so THEN I can give you advice) but at the time nobody is gonna just sit there and take that. You can't think that your proficient
always gives you the right to hound others with exaggerated emotional displays, because you are flat-out treating other people poorly. You want a rational explanation for not treating people right and making everything about you? Uh, no. It's just wrong, period. You can't ever really die down your
but for the sake of not driving everybody else insane, you can learn to put it on the back-burner with just some basic respect of others. You wanted the insight of how to do this? Well, that's what I'm trying to do.
And Dolphin was technically right, everything she said- so try to listen to it that and don't get so hung up on how she said it. You are doing what we don't like Diana doing. How can you really find your type by cherry-picking like that? And logically & practically & rationally & whateverally, you don't always have to be innately liked all the time no matter what your
is trying to tell you, so it is only counterproductive for you to get hung up on the "they think I'm an asshole" thing.