My last girlfriend and her top 10 Sayings

[Satan]

Huh??

Ask no questions hear no lies.

[Rubicon]

Ask no questions hear no lies.

I can handle the truth. I think.

[kensi]

Just started thinking about this...don't know why...maybe cause i'm here and its on my mind.......so.....Type my last Girlfriend based on this....




My last girlfriend and her top 10 Sayings:
(i reasonably know the answer btw...wondering if its obvious though)


....Roll the Drums........







10. "Sweet Ass !" ----she would say it out of nowhere, forcefully and vigilantly.



9. "Jackass is tail-gating me.....or....Jackass cut me off !" ----usually after she wasn't paying any attention to what's going on and would speed up in front of a dude in the later example,lol.



8. "When, you comin' to bed--never?" -----she would give every ounce of what she had into the day then fall over from exhaustion basically...this would be said in a monotone voice. (phaedrus if you're listening...a hint here..--she was definitely an early bed-goer..but not an early riser...Big Hint actually)



7. "....then you'll dump me" --- i know.. they all say this...but it did make it into the top 10



6. "Please.......please?.....please??...." ---she would go into a little child kind of a mode....unlike her usual mode (and she'd be pretty good at it)



5. "Remember..You're talkin' to a woman !" ---- monotone outburst



4. "I don't know. I dont know... I don't know !" ---- (i hope this one doesn't give it away)



3. "...(You) gotta love me !" ---- Anytime she would do something good. (kind of gave me no choice)



2. "....Have you met my Mother ?" ---- She would say this sarcastically to explain a certain truth about her life.......now which of the 8 functions is inclined to say this as a frequent one-liner deal?



1. Oh Brother! ----definitely number 1 --- she'd say this each time she seen some unusual happening taking place around her which didn't conform to her standard...or those of society in general.

....I know, i know, it didn't quite make the Lettermen Top 10. Thought i'd have some fun with it though. First person who gets this right really must know a thing or two about typing.

I think that based on these clues she is typeable...but i'm a little biased having been with her and observed these IRL....i simply wanna get some confirmation that i have our intertype correct.

I can't post pictures though. It would be way too unfair to her.

IMO.

Thanks go out to everyone who (really) participated in this one....its time to bring some closure though on her type.....

The Correct answer is ESTj. I'm surprised nobody got it. The answer is right there in the #1 position. Her dominant attitude was without a doubt Te and the top 10 list has its imprints on this. I am definitely sure that all things considered she was both a Delta and an ESTj....despite the fact of having picked up small learned behaviours to suggest otherwise in a few isolated circumstances.

That said..., every-time i used to give her a test to take....she would for whatever reason score highly in the ESFp, ESFj range (don't know if that has anything to do with a Benefit response or a Superego influence, maybe)...... which goes to show that tests are rather useless a lot of the times.....and experience with someone yields a much different result for ascertaining type.


This thread did enter into the following excerpt..but never quite sealed the deal. Here is a bit of an excerpt of a tendancy of the role function in an ESTj


as a role (3rd) function (LSE and LIE)

The individual makes an effort to adapt to the prevailing emotional atmosphere, especially in group situations, and tries to promote a positive emotional environment, as in making positive or witty remarks, in the presence of individuals he is already somewhat acquainted with and appreciates. Such efforts, however, are normally low-key and of short duration; it is difficult for him to display emotions more complex or intense than enthusiasm. He is essentially unable to participate in a group atmosphere where intense emotional expression as in loud laughing and mutual jokes are prevailing. The individual makes an effort to be aware of the need not to disrupt the prevailing emotional atmosphere but he does not succeed for any length of time if that would clash with his inner emotional state and private feelings about the other persons present. A typical example is the person who, in a group of people exchanging pleasantries and casual conversation, will occasionally correct erroneous statements made by others, in a way that can be perceived as annoying, despite otherwise making an effort to abide by the prevailing emotional atmosphere.

[Satan]

I can handle the truth. I think.

Well fuck it, they're a piece of shit. They're not worth the ground they step on, and should be removed. By force, if necessary.

[kensi]

I think her saying "you gotta love me" when she's done something nice implies Fi more than anything else.

Yeah...i agree....or maybe a combination of Fi > Fe ...fwiw... after Fe has already had its say.

[kensi]

well, assuming you've correctly typed her, i think the responses were interesting. many SF guesses. at any rate, i think an ESTj with a Fe role function could create a rather high spirited & enthusiastic impression (fwiw that's sort of the impression i got from your description.)

as for how she types out on tests, maybe it's something of an antiquated gender role thing. i don't think it's too weird to imagine an ESTj woman seeing herself as "feelery" for whatever reason heh.

I would consider ESTp or ESFp (like many of the responses) ....but she never had any real sort of Se awareness in her Ego.....and ESFp btw she could relate to but like i said it was merely a temporary learned behaviour from the types of people she used to hang out with....ESFP tendancies are the Benefactor of ESTJ tendancies afterall. I could have made her out to be an ESFj but then she would not have looked/felt like other ESFjs as her sense of Fe was rather like a Fad then a permanent fixture. So i have to say ESTj, percentage-wise, is the best fit. Btw..the relationship was a good one...so it almost certainly means that i, myself, cannot be INFp...her opposite. Also..I never felt real duality there, so in all likelihood, i cannot be INFj....this leaves me with ENFP, ENFJ, and ENTP as the best choices for me from that relationship.

She actually reminds me quite a bit of the fellow EZRA on this site and especially another one (at least superficially on the surface )

...Yeah....thats the funny part (her seeing herself too Feelery)....i got quite a kick from it .....I was the one sayinng "oh Brother...don't you see it...thats not you"...to myself. I think a lot of women might do this...just like a lot of guys perhaps think (or at least try to bolster) they are T types.


IMO.

[Blaze]

What type says shit fuck damn piss asshole goddamnit motherfucking bitch????

george carlin's type.