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    Default HELP! I am having a identity crisis!

    So for 2 years i thought i was an ISFP, and suddenly I am finding out I am not. I have extreme emotions and care/feel extreme sympathy for complete strangers. Seeing one overly fat person will ruin my entire day, because i feel so bad for them. Seeing one disabled person, one beatin down person, etc. etc. Anyways, so im really sensitive. I cry in movies, but not like cry cry, just like i tear up constantly. Music also often brings those tears. I have sudden moments of extreme emotion derrived from various art forms it seems. I love art. I am a filmmaker. Pretty much obssessed with emotion and experiencing it to the fullest extent i can. However, most of the people who know me well call me a complete asshole very often, as i very often am, i freely admit. Not something i am proud of in any way, and i work hard to stop being such a asshole and have improved much...lol. I like to bring people down who think to highly of themeslves. I am a defender of the underdog, but the one who pushes the underdog down or feels they are much more amazing than they are, i feel the need to push them down under the water and hold them there till their self estimation comes down. I shut people down quickly in arguments. I have strong opionions which i defend harshly. I feel the need to often do things againsts peoples "morals" that i dont find to be morality but rather bullshit. For instance - people who dont like "swearing" i like to swear a lot around, etc. etc. In high school i was the man for some reason, everyone kind of followed my need to the point where when anyone did anything bad in the school, the authorities just sent me to the office knowing somehow it came down to me since apparently i was the influence for every bad thing that went on. Everyone kind of followed my lead or whatever. I dont think i was really trying to make that happen. I have no idea. Just kind of happen that way. I was the kid with the messy hair who never took showers and ate old bread out of his locker. I liked to do things that were purposfully anti-everything anyone could be about or whatever. If everyone is wearing these certain type of clothes, i wore other types, etc. etc. I never even showered hardly, like maybe once a week if that. Just a really gross high school kid, but everyone followed me around and did and said whatever stupid thing i said and did...
    As a young kid and till now however i have been very emotional, and feel sorry for people very very often. When another kid would be being made fun of or something, i always felt really really bad, unless i was doing the beating down. But i only liked to beat down people with my words who were overly confident in some way.

    Also see the threads my friend already posted about me...
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    Sounds like an EIE to me.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
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    Quote Originally Posted by diljs View Post
    He now thinks he is SLI...can anyone see ?
    NO. EIE.

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    Seeing one overly fat person will ruin my entire day, because i feel so bad for them.
    lolololz

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    Hahaha, now that I saw the other responses I feel way off. I was thinking more of an INFp or ISFj.
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    Default a little more info...

    So also, when people ask me to do things, i am very bad at saying no. pretty much if you ask me to do something you can guarentee i will do it. I like to please people who i respect greatly. I am trustworthy. People tell me crap they wont tell anyone else about all their gory personal details for some reason and always trust i wont tell anyone. My constant doing things for other people because i cant tell them no has prevented me from pursuing the things i want to do. I stay in situations and jobs for long amounts of time just because people want me there. Im bad at letting people down and moving on to greater things, its hard for me to do.

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    organizing things gives me a boner. I love to clean. I require my house to be spotless and organized. I am sanitary, and overly sensitive about my skin and cleanliness. I value people who pay attention to their surroundings, and often people who dont annoy me. I like when people pay attention, dont trip on things, notice that there is food on their mouth, chew with their mouth open, etc. dont notice their clothes are dirty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by moffmike9 View Post
    organizing things gives me a boner. I love to clean. I require my house to be spotless and organized. I am sanitary, and overly sensitive about my skin and cleanliness. I value people who pay attention to their surroundings, and often people who dont annoy me. I like when people pay attention, dont trip on things, notice that there is food on their mouth, chew with their mouth open, etc. dont notice their clothes are dirty.
    just curious....that sounds the opposite of what you said you did in hs...why do you think that is? what made you go the opposite?

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    i think INFp > ENFj
    INTp
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    I was feeling the Fe creative vibe myself, but Ni>Si.
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    This is me and my dual being scientific together

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessica129 View Post
    lolololz
    lmao, you DO need someone like this
    But, for a certainty, back then,
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    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
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    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by moffmike9 View Post
    So for 2 years i thought i was an ISFP, and suddenly I am finding out I am not. I have extreme emotions and care/feel extreme sympathy for complete strangers. Seeing one overly fat person will ruin my entire day, because i feel so bad for them. Seeing one disabled person, one beatin down person, etc. etc. Anyways, so im really sensitive. I cry in movies, but not like cry cry, just like i tear up constantly. Music also often brings those tears. I have sudden moments of extreme emotion derrived from various art forms it seems. I love art. I am a filmmaker. Pretty much obssessed with emotion and experiencing it to the fullest extent i can. However, most of the people who know me well call me a complete asshole very often, as i very often am, i freely admit. Not something i am proud of in any way, and i work hard to stop being such a asshole and have improved much...lol. I like to bring people down who think to highly of themeslves. I am a defender of the underdog, but the one who pushes the underdog down or feels they are much more amazing than they are, i feel the need to push them down under the water and hold them there till their self estimation comes down. I shut people down quickly in arguments. I have strong opionions which i defend harshly. I feel the need to often do things againsts peoples "morals" that i dont find to be morality but rather bullshit. For instance - people who dont like "swearing" i like to swear a lot around, etc. etc. In high school i was the man for some reason, everyone kind of followed my need to the point where when anyone did anything bad in the school, the authorities just sent me to the office knowing somehow it came down to me since apparently i was the influence for every bad thing that went on. Everyone kind of followed my lead or whatever. I dont think i was really trying to make that happen. I have no idea. Just kind of happen that way. I was the kid with the messy hair who never took showers and ate old bread out of his locker. I liked to do things that were purposfully anti-everything anyone could be about or whatever. If everyone is wearing these certain type of clothes, i wore other types, etc. etc. I never even showered hardly, like maybe once a week if that. Just a really gross high school kid, but everyone followed me around and did and said whatever stupid thing i said and did...
    As a young kid and till now however i have been very emotional, and feel sorry for people very very often. When another kid would be being made fun of or something, i always felt really really bad, unless i was doing the beating down. But i only liked to beat down people with my words who were overly confident in some way.

    Also see the threads my friend already posted about me...
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    From that weird zipper video....
    guy on left: Gamma NT, maybe INTp
    guy on right: maybe INFp
    ENTP:wink:ALPHA

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    Whoaly shit. You're having an identity crisis over this?

    C'mon. lol.
    Last edited by thePirate; 07-02-2008 at 12:03 AM.
    <Crispy> what subt doesnt understand is that a healthy reaction to "FUCK YOU" is and not

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