Yes, I agree. Joy's description of INTj is very similar to what I've experienced, although I have never lived with any of them. I don't think Se-PoLR people are always weak-willed (although some male INxjs can project a very wimpy feeling because they're ok with everything). People with Se-PoLR just often under-value their own personal opinions, which is a sign of weakness in my book. Standing up for what you believe in is easy. That it's not enough. A person should also have personal opinions.Originally Posted by Joy
Mhh.. That's it - I am opinionated but I hate making decisions. It would be great to share my insight with someone else and let them make the decision.
I would agree with it 100%, if we lost the words "submissive" and "inferior". That's an urban legend. I think even beta NFs want to be appreciated, not pushed around like pieces of meat. I'm way too sensitive and tender for an aggressively forceful man.Originally Posted by Diana
But the submissive and inferior role is an important part of about 95% of my sexual thoughts.
PS! Diana, yet another misunderstanding. You were saying that the "weak-willed attitude of the INxjs comes from their low self-worth. I somehow got the impression that you were saying that I'm calling INxjs "weak-willed" because I have low self-worth.