duality: the 3rd, 4th, 7th, and 8th functions

[Joy]

So basically...

3rd and 7th:
You: "I'm concerned about stuff related to my 3rd function."
Dual: "Well don't be. It doesn't matter as much as you seem to think."

4th and 8th:
Dual: "I took care of stuff related to your 4th function."
You: " Awesome! I'm really glad I don't have to deal with that."

If we get used to being with our dual and then have to make due without him/her, it sucks really bad because once we've experienced not having to worry about our 4th function, we can't go back. We wonder how we ever got by without our duals. (The same applies to our 5th function, except even more so.)

[snegledmaca]

4th and 8th:
Dual: "I took care of stuff related to your 4th function."
You: " Awesome! I'm really glad I don't have to deal with that."

If we get used to being with our dual and then have to make due without him/her, it sucks really bad because once we've experienced not having to worry about our 4th function, we can't go back. We wonder how we ever got by without our duals.

It would technically apply for illusionary as well.



And, strangely, this feel precisely like what I had with a friend of mine. That is, after I couldn't "use" him like that anymore it really, really sucked. I had to basically relearn how to do things on my own, to kind of learn to live without him. It sounds kind of gay, but it's not. It was like a disabled person getting rid of their disability and then one day it coming back. Or somebody that suddenly got rich, got use to the big life and suddenly lost everything they had. Like a support has been kicked out from under you. It really, really sucks.