
Originally Posted by
Diana
Sigh. When things are not quantifiable but felt describing them needs different words. It's I would think quite natural to use Ti to get at a Fi understanding. And I do so wish people would get the crap understanding of Fi out of their heads. It is not a lesser form of logic, it is not an irrational or more poorly thought way of approaching things, it in a way goes deeper than Ti. Both are connections - both are used to create a structure, one structure is not less than the other, but the qualities of the connections are quite different. One is the firm, "logic" of connections, the other the grasp of things without labels. That is why when speaking of things that must be grasped without measures such as between people or within yourself Fi is the element used.
But when you try to explain things, create a reproducible structure to show to others, you must use Ti. They cannot get your understanding without seeing it in Ti, or my favorite way to try to get things across is with analogy as it comes closest to my thoughts. It has to be translated in other words. Now, with the second passage you wrote, I found it easy to identify with but only you can determine whether my understanding of it was correct or not.
Yes, exactly. That's what I was talking about when I said that I was needing to put what was in my head, non-tangible things, into words, which are concrete (relatively speaking). However, I'd prefer not to put it into concrete terms as much as I can help it because it's less than ideal - it's limiting. Which is why, if it must be concrete, I want for it to be very simple and basic. I want to be able to capture the essence of something, it's heart, to be able to define that if necessary, and that way avoid having to put the rest of it into words, which would likely end up leaving parts out and not really capturing everything.
If you understand the heart of something (or someone) the rest of it makes sense and can even be predicted sometimes. (Being able to predict something kind of relates back to the stability thing.) If I can reasonably accurately predict or understand something that way, then I don't have to build the more tangible and specific structure - I don't have to get there by logic, which is actually something I tend to do after the fact, I've noticed. I'll get to an idea, which makes perfect sense to me and it works in reality, but there's no specific logic to how I got there. To get people where I am, I often feel I have to build a "road" of reasons for them. Which, again, goes back to having the heart already defined, that way I can give them the basic definition and let them build their own road if they want it.
Sometimes, as you mention, analogy is the closest I can get to making what I know visible, so I tend to use analogy a lot, too.
I don't know how much sense that all makes, though.