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    I also noticed that LSE and SLIs can easily ignore people that caused them suffering. Like, if someone is bothering them or making them suffer in some unnecessary way, they simply block the person out of their life.

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    As far as I can tell from my friend, and how it turned out for her numerous suitors, it's best not to invest too much more in the LSE than the LSE is currently prepared to invest in you in case it doesn't pan out and you will get hurt more than the LSE will, do not pressure an LSE to go faster along the relationship than the LSE is prepared to go as this is a good way to become cut off (preferably without disharmony), but it certainly helps if you fit nicely into the existing inner circle, especially the innermost 'family' one. An LSE won't sacrifice this for somebody relatively new to their lives, feelings schmeelings.
    It's happened to me several times. Motsly it's when I rattle their feelings to get a feel where I stand or when I try to put the relationship on hyperspeed. I get labelled as "immature", whereas I perceive them as secretive and overreacting by cutting me off instead of explaining themselves. I try to not take it personally, but it's hard and this behaviour makes my trust issues even worse.

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    I think any strong Te user can easily do that.

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    S-T types act most openly and directly with people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP View Post
    Hmmm comment about LSE's and getting over things like relationships and stuff like that, or removing undesirable people from its life.


    It's funny, from my perspective, after I do that, no one is ever the same. And I cannot really change that even if I want to change how I relate. It sort of just goes to this neutrality, I'm not sure how to explain it.
    13 years later, I don't feel the same



    one of those NFs got to me about how relationships are basically always continuous. when I wrote the OP, I was very far away from thinking I could see, feel, or interface with any of that.
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
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    I would think that Te-types would find it much harder to cut people out of their lives than would Ti-types because the latter is inherently detached, in a cognitive sense, from everything and everybody including themselves.

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