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i was thinking possibly ESI, but from this relatively limited description SLI makes sense.
is she older or younger than you?
LII-Ne
"Come to think of it, there are already a million monkeys on a million typewriters, and the Usenet is NOTHING like Shakespeare!"
- Blair Houghton
Johari
An ENTj called me boring once. It was like a knife in my heart.
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
I think ISFj
What type are you Starfall?
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
TBQH I thought INFj was a possibility as well. She seems very self-deprecating (which isn't an EII characteristic in and of itself) and perhaps very unwilling to share her opinions. It's not that she doesn't have them, but probably more like she feels 'sharing' is forcing herself on the world or that she feels that kind of openness might open her open to investigation or that question which seems so self-negating, 'why?' If she cares as much about other people as you say, her fear of rejection by them might be enough to withdraw into her own thoughts, which can be a world sufficient for EII's ime.
I used to pretty 'boring' like her when I was younger and didn't understand myself very well. I'm still that way to an extent today.
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend