In terms of competition, in the past I've tried to make it look as though I don't care, but I do... I've been competitive at everything from H-O-R-S-E to who received the highest SATs in high school. All of that crap... Maybe this is unusual for ENFps..? I'm from a pretty competitive family, e.g. achievements encouraged, failures=shame... Perhaps it's not natural for me to be so competitive though--I've noticed that since I've been living away from my family/friends who are jocks, I've mellowed considerably.

As to jealousy--if someone is way better than me at something, I might feel jealous, but generally I feel proud of them... My attitude is: it's great that there are people in this world who are skilled at (certain) things--it enriches everyone's life...

As to what tereg said about being a lil jealous of other peoples' circumstances, I'd be lying if I said I never felt it...