I do prefer to win...but I don't like to gloat (makes others feel bad). But I do gloat on the inside.

I never had much of a competitive thing w/ ESFPs. Usually I felt ESFPs and me "got" eachother pretty well. Occasionally they might be more into a video game or something than me, but nothing enough to matter. Now w/ ESTPs I can see it could get ugly.

Oh...and as for the jealousy part...I almost never am jealous for what people have achieved/naturally have/have aquired. Because if they worked for it, I'm happy for them. If they're born w/ it, it wasn't up to them. However, I do get very jealous if a guy I'm dating flirts or looks at girls, etc, which is why I can't date guys who are like that.