In my experience, ESFJ women, especially, are ditzy and air-headed. I can't manage to hold conversation with them worth a damn. They are always around to help out, but quite frankly they always seem ready to help out anyone.
My little sister is an ESFJ. She's a dear, but really predicatable and quite frankly she comes off to me as shallow. But my comments above qualify for every ESFJ female I've met, not just her.
How the hell are you supposed to have a relationship with a dual who is so shallow?