Well I am back. How's everyone? Don't have as much time now, but glad to see some of the old gang are still here.
All women like bad boys.
/an anvil is about to fall on me. Inumbra sees the shadowy silhoutte and is ambivalent about warning me to get out of the way. Defeated, she kind of just let it hits me and enjoys the cold Fi sadism.
"come on you know I'm right though" I say as a ghost.
@Shazaam Well, you're not wrong in the sense that it's probably NTR.
This dude was just mixing up LIE with ASS types. Based on this quoted part alone, it already sounds probable that he fits somewhere in the dark triad.LIEs don't like bad girls, they like girls that will put up with them. They love to take pure innocent ISFJs and ahem educate tem.
They’re like junk food. They know they should abstain from it and probably eat healthy most of the time but can’t help caving every now and then. Most people don’t like to be defined by their “mistakes”/vices”
Fair point but the thing is, at the time it doesn't feel like a mistake or vice at all- but just something so natural. What the woman said about bad boys protecting you also feels true. No offense but maybe straight guys don't fully understand this but women/gay guys hate somebody cruelly taking advantage of our natural vulnerabilities. Nobody likes that, but we especially don't. A guy that can be viscious to our natural predators/enemies in the outside world but nice to us is like- damn.They’re like junk food. They know they should abstain from it and probably eat healthy most of the time but can’t help caving every now and then. Most people don’t like to be defined by their “mistakes”/vices”
Of course in reality a guy that is a dick to others is often also a dick to their significant other as well. ((Fe trumping Fi? lol)) That's where things go south and go south hard and then everybody is all 'you stupid str8 girl why were you so typical and did this! If you just weren't attracted to him in the first place this fucked up grimdark drama wouldn't even be happening now, you should be ashamed of your natural instincts. Why couldn't you have just married Nice Guy greg who was so sweet to you and bagged your groceries at Walgreens!'
Because well Greg didn't prove himself as a good enough tank. In a dog eat dog world you fight fire with fire not by being nice. That can be an effective strategy too at times don't get me wrong, but it's obviously limited. I don't know- everybody sucks sometimes. SJWism against white straight guys is stupid because it's not like females/gays/blacks/whatever aren't the bad guys sometimes too. It's not really about right or wrong though but about power.
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This is just a stage some women go through, not sure if it especifically has to do with ISFjs, but I suspect it does.
lol no
How would you know? You are a male.
Now coming from an ESI (ISFj) woman - lol no.
But of course, you'll probably just invalidate my genuine preferences with "they'd never admit it" just as you hypocritically invalidated someone else's opinion because they're a male even though you also are a male.
In other words, you seem like you just want to believe what you want to believe.
EDIT:
Btw, the point I'm trying to make by saying all of this is that male opinions are just as valid. Both of them, regardless of whether I or anyone else personally agrees. Until it's supported by evidence, it's no more than a belief. You can't just counter beliefs with "no bc I believe differently," regardless of what your gender is. Females believing it doesn't make it any more valid/correct, it's still just a belief. Either gender is able to provide factual evidence.
Last edited by Fluffy Princess Unicorn; 11-12-2021 at 08:38 PM.
This+Te retardedness flinged as an attempt to feel superior, probably caused by being triggered by my posting, is due to be ignored.
Explanation #2: He cannot cite his own preference as example, because this thread is referring to female ISFj's being attracted to male bad boys. He hasn't supplied any examples or third party knowlege. I, however, am aware of a few ISFj females who seemed to be attracted to bad boys (properly defined: SLE's) in their youth, one of them I had to open her eyes much to my detriment, and have her see that she needed a good man instead, to which she married a pussy. Both examples I know are Fi sub, so you don't have to feel triggered(assuming you are really ESI) by this(in case this particular triggered you).
@roger557 I just find it odd that the ESI personality in general would go for this. I'd sooner expect it of IEI.
I'm biting my tongue with the rest. I see no reason why we should continue the back and forth until there is a hostile relationship between us when we don't actually know each other.
Bound upon me, rush upon me, I will overcome you by enduring your onset: whatever strikes against that which is firm and unconquerable merely injures itself by its own violence. Wherefore, seek some soft and yielding object to pierce with your darts.
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