What's your least favorite thing about your identicals?

[Narc]

Machiavellian motherfuckers at times. Generally harder to hit up a conversation with than most.

[Amber]

Machiavellian motherfuckers at times. Generally harder to hit up a conversation with than most.

oh no-no, the Machiavellian ones are usually ENFJs

[InvisibleJim]

Brittleness.

[blackburry]

ESIs are pretty hard to get to know. They test the waters a lot. and change their minds. Super pessimistic.

[Becca]

I love my identicals, although I don't know any irl. It would be interesting to meet someone who thought like me, although their weak points would be annoying. The well developed ones would probably be really cool. I wish I knew some irl...sigh.

[willekeurig]

Too much speculating, too little action. I'm terrible enough myself, having to spend time with someone just as bad makes me want to throw things at walls.

[lemontrees]

extremely obvious Te PoLR. makes me feel like i too will be just as inept my whole life

Add:
-sometimes a weird, age or situation inappropriate childlike way of dealing w/ people
-"don't know how the world works" naive vibes

unexpected positive:

-I find the SEI women I've met... pretty attractive? like not in your face so but kind of like really pleasing overall

[darya]

I sense seething bitchiness and competitiveness under many Beta NF females, which I'm not a fan of. Some are better at concealing it than others. It's like - you cool and I understand you and you're awesome, but maybe we shouldn't be friends It's just fighting for the same territory.

Guys are cool though, maybe trying to appear tougher than they are, but I find it endearing

Edit: Fuck, this came off more bitchy than I intended. An IEI girl is actually my closest friend atm and I love her dearly...

[bolong]

imo male beta NFs are a lot worse than females.

Moodiness is my least favorite thing.. it's like I'm allowed to be moody bc I can't help it, but how dare other people be moody and ruin everyone's fun?!

[Joy]

LSEs are kind of boring.

[The Exception]

With my identicals, we share the same vulnerable spots, so we can't help other out. As much as I love my fellow identicals, sometimes it's awkward watching them because it's like you're viewing your own awkward self. I watched a video of my identical, his speech patterns and hand movements were eerily similar to mine. It was fascinating and unsettling all at once.

[Suz]

Hmm. I don't really relate anymore to my previous post from two years ago lol.

I would say that something I dislike is that I've noticed that SEI's can be dutiful, while still not being very efficient. This leads them to spend more time than necessary doing productive activities that they need to "get done" and it cuts into time for their personal life and interests. I had one SEI friend in grad school who spent all of his time on student stuff and never went partying, however he was doing it extremely slowly and often seemed to actually spend much of that time watching youtube videos of glee. Etc. Lol.

I know I'm like this all the time too. ;___;

(maybe it differs from person to person...?)

I dont know if we're identicals or not, but this is the story of my (academic) life...
my sister's like this too..

(substitute glee with something else fun online lol)

[Birdie]

Lack of communication. So frustrating.

[Waster]

SLI-Si - Can't say I've met one, but I suppose it'd be similar to Kindred in that they're a bit lazy.

SLI-Te - Lack of warmth, communication skills; feeling like I'm tip toeing around them.

[Cerelict]

EIE--focus on image, tendency to intrude, give you shit about how you seem pissed off when you didn't say anything at all.

[Contra]

We compete for the same attention.

[Skepsis]

Neither will make the first move.

[Amber]

Se subtype identicals are terribly competitive and always compare themselves to me .. as if being the same Sociotype meant having similar values.

Fi subtype identicals can appear either aloof&self-absorbed, or rather accommodating sometimes ... so I kind of think they're being fake, I guess. But this is not the case for me lol. I heard it in their own words that I don't seem to give as much shit about other ppl's feelings as some of them do. I suppose you can say various differences come down to enneagram and core motivations....