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    Default Should finding one's dual annoying make one doubt their type?

    hmmm.
    I'm beginning to doubt my being ENTp and/or duality in general.
    I've found almost every ISFp on here annoying, with the exception of bionicgoat, for some reason.

    Oh, and there was someone else I liked, but I forgot their username.
    But anyway, most of the recent "What's My Type" thread starters who eventually are typed ISFp have all seemed somewhat annoying to me.

    I'm not sure what this means. Either:
    1. I am not ILE
    2. SEIs only come off that way on the internet
    3. Duality doesn't work for everyone.
    4. I judge people too quickly
    5. I'm in a bad mood and I feel like criticizing my dual.
    6. SEIs ARE annoying, and I was supposed to accept that, or kill them when no one notices.
    7. No one is a REAL SEI
    8. A combination of 1 and six with 2 thrown in every once in a while, divided by four.
    9. Brain Cancer of the lip
    10. Bad math.
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    I vote for the cancer.

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    Can you pinpoint a common theme that you find in ISFp's that you find annoying? Something in the way they present their information? Is it all over the map and difficult to pin it on one thing?
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    Quote Originally Posted by tereg View Post
    Can you pinpoint a common theme that you find in ISFp's that you find annoying? Something in the way they present their information? Is it all over the map and difficult to pin it on one thing?

    They don't bother me in person. Just some of the ones on here.
    And I'm not sure why.

    Too many exclamation points, which would feel appropriate in person, but annoys me online. And the fact that the exclamation points are used after sentences about themselves. Which leads me to think that they are very excited about themselves. And how when they respond to things, they make it sound like they are doing someone else a favor by talking about themselves. I don't know. Just the combination of exclamation points and talking about themselves and pointing out the obvious makes me sick.

    I haven't really thought any of it through though, so the above paragraph most likely sounds retarded. But I'm too lazy to double check anything.
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    EXPLAIN YOSELF!

    but really, is it my blatent emotional weakness or my blatent failure of socioncs that pisses you off?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kamangir View Post
    EXPLAIN YOSELF!

    but really, is it my blatent emotional weakness or my blatent failure of socioncs that pisses you off?

    Haha. Calm down.

    Quote Originally Posted by anamericancer
    Oh, and there was someone else I liked, but I forgot their username.
    It might have been you I was thinking about. Not sure.
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    Yeah truly, I feel that I need to convey emotion over the internet, and what better way than to use descriptive words and put exclamation marks after everything?

    Truly, I'm tons more chill irl. But I carry emotion too.
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    IRL relations and interactions should be more significant than anything online in regard to your determinations.
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

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    Damn, looks like you duals just don't like each other much. I forget what post this was said and by whom, but it said that "sparks take much longer for duals than for other relationships, but that spark grows bigger and lasts longer than any other relationship out there".... fuck, I should really find that quote.

    And so far, I love my duals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anamericancer View Post
    hmmm.
    I'm beginning to doubt my being ENTp and/or duality in general.
    I've found almost every ISFp on here annoying, with the exception of bionicgoat, for some reason.

    Oh, and there was someone else I liked, but I forgot their username.
    But anyway, most of the recent "What's My Type" thread starters who eventually are typed ISFp have all seemed somewhat annoying to me.

    I'm not sure what this means. Either:
    1. I am not ILE
    2. SEIs only come off that way on the internet
    3. Duality doesn't work for everyone.
    4. I judge people too quickly
    5. I'm in a bad mood and I feel like criticizing my dual.
    6. SEIs ARE annoying, and I was supposed to accept that, or kill them when no one notices.
    7. No one is a REAL SEI
    8. A combination of 1 and six with 2 thrown in every once in a while, divided by four.
    9. Brain Cancer of the lip
    10. Bad math.
    If you subscribe to a notion of subtype, could you say that the ISFp's that have annoyed you are subtypes?
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    Quote Originally Posted by anamericancer View Post
    hmmm.
    I'm beginning to doubt my being ENTp and/or duality in general.
    I've found almost every ISFp on here annoying, with the exception of bionicgoat, for some reason.

    Oh, and there was someone else I liked, but I forgot their username.
    But anyway, most of the recent "What's My Type" thread starters who eventually are typed ISFp have all seemed somewhat annoying to me.

    I'm not sure what this means. Either:
    1. I am not ILE
    2. SEIs only come off that way on the internet
    3. Duality doesn't work for everyone.
    4. I judge people too quickly
    5. I'm in a bad mood and I feel like criticizing my dual.
    6. SEIs ARE annoying, and I was supposed to accept that, or kill them when no one notices.
    7. No one is a REAL SEI
    8. A combination of 1 and six with 2 thrown in every once in a while, divided by four.
    9. Brain Cancer of the lip
    10. Bad math.
    It's quite possible that the SEI's typed here are mistyped. Also, there are people of every type who are annoying and people who are not.

    When I thought I was ILE I didn't "believe in" duality because I couldn't imagine why I being with an SEI would be a good thing. They seemed boring at best, based solely on descriptions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    It's quite possible that the SEI's typed here are mistyped. Also, there are people of every type who are annoying and people who are not.

    When I thought I was ILE I didn't "believe in" duality because I couldn't imagine why I being with an SEI would be a good thing. They seemed boring at best, based solely on descriptions.
    Truly, whenever I read SEI descriptions, they don't capture the true essence of an SEI at all.

    We're a hell of a lot funner to be around than the descriptions give off.
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