Should finding one's dual annoying make one doubt their type?

[xyz]

I would glamourama, but, you're hundreds of states away!

[Ms. Kensington]

UDP the estj is the one who should be allowed to cook. INxjs want to be awesome at it heck i think i am an awesome cook but the fact is i am just not. estjs are good medical students and cooks. I also think ISTps make a mean brownie.

[UDP]

- I agree with you.
- ESTjs are also somewhat big on traditional roles, IME, and according to various profiles....
- and I know a lot of INFjs who like baking brownies (perhaps because they are simple and make everyone happy).
- I don't have a problem with cooking
- I make brownies too. You want some? Come on over.
- ...being served brownies and having someone make them for you is a nice treat, regardless.
- I've been making, stirring, and baking brownies since I was in elementary school.

- I like eating food, so when people are happy that I am eating the food they made, well that's great for me. My INFj aunt really enjoys it when I eat up all her good meals and brownies too.

- I am learning how to cook more and more, so I don't mind cooking or helping out in the kitchen at all.

[Creepy-bg]

Yeah, they don't annoy me irl. Just these online ones...
except bionicgoat, for some reason. I laugh at almost everything he types.


and another one whose username i've forgotten.
But a couple SEIs on here drive me crazy.

thanks for the recognition Anamericancer and Blaze, I can always use the ego boost.

to tell the truth some SEIs sort of annoy me too. not quite sure how to describe it though... I think it's mostly a hyper kind of thing, gets on my nerves. FWI I really like all the ILEs I've met here. I do zone out when they get really into argueing theory, but when they throw around the silly Ne it's the bees knees as far I'm concerned... good stuff... plus it gets me going on the same stuff which I really like. I've found that when I talk to ILEs through PMs and junk here there is a little bit of distance, but they're really easy for me to talk to and get to know. There's that sort of feeling like I've known them forever can say whatever I want + they tend to know what I'm not saying or able to say as well.

[Blaze]

because infjs are only good for making brownies. go figure.

lol. good one.

bionic, where you been brother? nice to see a post from you.

[xyz]

- I agree with you.
- ESTjs are also somewhat big on traditional roles, IME, and according to various profiles....
- and I know a lot of INFjs who like baking brownies (perhaps because they are simple and make everyone happy).
- I don't have a problem with cooking
- I make brownies too. You want some? Come on over.
- ...being served brownies and having someone make them for you is a nice treat, regardless.
- I've been making, stirring, and baking brownies since I was in elementary school.

- I like eating food, so when people are happy that I am eating the food they made, well that's great for me. My INFj aunt really enjoys it when I eat up all her good meals and brownies too.

- I am learning how to cook more and more, so I don't mind cooking or helping out in the kitchen at all.

<ahem> I find INFj's to be some very complex and beautiful human beings on the inside who care deeply about other human beings.

But that doesn't mean they're too good to bake me some friggin brownies

[Ms. Kensington]

but istps' brownies are so much better.

Btw UDP i didn't mean to imply that estjs are selfish or anything for wanting brownies. Then everyone would just be horrible and deserve to die, which isn't true.

Lol i hope my infj friend doesn't see this. Amy, love your lemon bars!

[Creepy-bg]

lol. good one.

bionic, where you been brother? nice to see a post from you.

fuck man, my computers busted plus there's all this heavy shit going on in my life... My dad was like knocking on deaths door the other day and had to take him to the hospital (me and my mom) when we got there his blood pressure was crazy low, like 60/40 or something. Anyways, lung cancer sucks- he's still in there.

anyways, life

[Minde]

Oh god.......

INFjs making brownies for me. That is probably one of my favorite things in the world. Oh yeah, especially because they always say "have as much as you want!", and I try to be nice by not taking them all, but then they sort of just leave them there, maybe hoping you do, and then I do, and it is like everyone is happy. Mmmm.... I need to find more INFjs to make me brownies, yes.....

- I agree with you.
- ESTjs are also somewhat big on traditional roles, IME, and according to various profiles....
- and I know a lot of INFjs who like baking brownies (perhaps because they are simple and make everyone happy).
- I don't have a problem with cooking
- I make brownies too. You want some? Come on over.
- ...being served brownies and having someone make them for you is a nice treat, regardless.
- I've been making, stirring, and baking brownies since I was in elementary school.

- I like eating food, so when people are happy that I am eating the food they made, well that's great for me. My INFj aunt really enjoys it when I eat up all her good meals and brownies too.

- I am learning how to cook more and more, so I don't mind cooking or helping out in the kitchen at all.

because infjs are only good for making brownies. go figure.

<ahem> I find INFj's to be some very complex and beautiful human beings on the inside who care deeply about other human beings.

But that doesn't mean they're too good to bake me some friggin brownies

So. Finally, a practical use for INFjs.

You'd think I'd have learned this lesson by now - Be careful what you wish for.

[cracka]

So. Finally, a practical use for INFjs.

You'd think I'd have learned this lesson by now - Be careful what you wish for.

Wait, sooooo.... does this mean you're gonna make us all some brownies?

Cool.

[Minde]

Wait, sooooo.... does this mean you're gonna make us all some brownies?

Cool.

Yes, I will make you brownies.

It seems I have no choice in the matter. It is my purpose in life, my destiny.

[Minde]

Do INFjs make good hash brownies too?

Maybe. What are they?

[aut0]

Maybe. What are they?

Haha!

[cracka]

Maybe. What are they?

Classic.

[Minde]

*runs away and cries 'cause the mean boys are laughing at her*

[xyz]

Yes, I will make you brownies.

It seems I have no choice in the matter. It is my purpose in life, my destiny.

I'm sure you're good at all that other stuff like music and staying true to your own identity, but the immediate problem we have that you can solve is an insufficient supply of brownies.

[aut0]

*runs away and cries 'cause the mean boys are laughing at her*

lol they're brownies made with marijuana. Are you still up for making some?

[Minde]

lol they're brownies made with marijuana. Are you still up for making some?

No.

[Minde]

I'm sure you're good at all that other stuff like music and staying true to your own identity, but the immediate problem we have that you can solve is an insufficient supply of brownies.

Now that's how you talk to an INFj. I'd be happy to make some brownies (of the legal kind!) for you, LokiV.

[aut0]

No.

Aw, come on. I thought you valued & .

[Joy]

hmmm.
I'm beginning to doubt my being ENTp and/or duality in general.
I've found almost every ISFp on here annoying, with the exception of bionicgoat, for some reason.

Oh, and there was someone else I liked, but I forgot their username.
But anyway, most of the recent "What's My Type" thread starters who eventually are typed ISFp have all seemed somewhat annoying to me.

I'm not sure what this means. Either:
1. I am not ILE
2. SEIs only come off that way on the internet
3. Duality doesn't work for everyone.
4. I judge people too quickly
5. I'm in a bad mood and I feel like criticizing my dual.
6. SEIs ARE annoying, and I was supposed to accept that, or kill them when no one notices.
7. No one is a REAL SEI
8. A combination of 1 and six with 2 thrown in every once in a while, divided by four.
9. Brain Cancer of the lip
10. Bad math.

It's quite possible that the SEI's typed here are mistyped. Also, there are people of every type who are annoying and people who are not.

When I thought I was ILE I didn't "believe in" duality because I couldn't imagine why I being with an SEI would be a good thing. They seemed boring at best, based solely on descriptions.

[UDP]

but istps' brownies are so much better.

Btw UDP i didn't mean to imply that estjs are selfish or anything for wanting brownies. Then everyone would just be horrible and deserve to die, which isn't true.

Lol i hope my infj friend doesn't see this. Amy, love your lemon bars!

Yeah.... don't worry about it.

fuck man, my computers busted plus there's all this heavy shit going on in my life... My dad was like knocking on deaths door the other day and had to take him to the hospital (me and my mom) when we got there his blood pressure was crazy low, like 60/40 or something. Anyways, lung cancer sucks- he's still in there.

anyways, life

I've heard it's been heavy and rough in up in your place. Good luck with that, BG.

So. Finally, a practical use for INFjs.

You'd think I'd have learned this lesson by now - Be careful what you wish for.

Well there are other practical uses for INFjs, but we won't get into that.
But yeah.... brownies are real nice, Minde. It would be nice to have some.

Yes, I will make you brownies.

It seems I have no choice in the matter. It is my purpose in life, my destiny.

Would you like me to help you make them?

*runs away and cries 'cause the mean boys are laughing at her*

Hey now, scaring INFjs away is not cool

I'm sure you're good at all that other stuff like music and staying true to your own identity, but the immediate problem we have that you can solve is an insufficient supply of brownies.

Now that's how you talk to an INFj. I'd be happy to make some brownies (of the legal kind!) for you, LokiV.

Well that's good.


If we are to be talking about types destinies here, well, ESTjs are suppose to help INFjs do practical stuff, so........... (and you don't wait for them to ask you, either - because sometimes they never ask - you just do it).....

*starts making brownies*

[Mediator Kam]

It's quite possible that the SEI's typed here are mistyped. Also, there are people of every type who are annoying and people who are not.

When I thought I was ILE I didn't "believe in" duality because I couldn't imagine why I being with an SEI would be a good thing. They seemed boring at best, based solely on descriptions.

Truly, whenever I read SEI descriptions, they don't capture the true essence of an SEI at all.

We're a hell of a lot funner to be around than the descriptions give off.